I’m extremely lonely and it’s physically painful. Anyone want to just talk even if you’re not in my area?
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It's an unfortunate state of affairs, but like you said anytime humans try to achieve intimacy (even platonic intimacy) this should be expected. We're messy creatures, and often aren't honest with ourselves about that messiness.
Try to be as impartial and fair as possible, but some bias and judgement creeps in. My "ideal" cuddler:
Around my age, has a filled in and informative profile ideally including pictures but I've messaged those without before, can host as I'm super anxious about having people over, not overly political/religious in their profile, doesn't seem too judgy, good at communication, nice/friendly, lives within an hour or so of where I live, not creepy/dodgy in their messages, someone I could be friends with outside of cuddling even if that's not gonna happen.
Also does anyone know how to delete messages if someone sends you something offensive? Or are you just stuck with that in your inbox forever?
@SonnyJo when you have the conversation open, click the three dots menu (mine is in the upper right corner), I see the option for Delete Conversation there.
Ok cool