New to this... Does this actually work?

engermanjessicaengermanjessica
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Hey fellow Cuddlers.
I can't help but wonder a few things... 1. How many of you have actually done this? How often do you use this cuddle service?
and
2. Did it not lead to anything romantic?
I love cuddling, but of course I have to be careful not to get raped in the process.
Thank you for your responses.
Jessica

Comments

  • funandadventurefunandadventure
    Dear Jessica, Welcome to the site.
     I can say that this site works very well if you give it time, have a clear and thoughtful profile and listen to the others on the site. Watch the threads.
    I have a great Platonic cuddling time and it for me, has not become romantic in any way. The area you are in will produce some problems as there are not many members there.
    As for you other comments about rape and alike, only ever meet in a public place until you know you can trust the other person to your and only your satisfaction. If they are real they will understand.
    Make friends with some of the Cuddle Companions on the site and ask them.
    Touch Therapy is so needed by so many people, read the threads and there are a lot of them.
    This thread has been answered so many times before and in so many different ways.
    Have fun and play safe, Love from John and his trees, Auckland NZ
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    hi Jessica,

    Its similar to online dating.   Similar dangers basically.  Use the same precautions.  

  • [Deleted User]TeYa (deleted user)
    Hi I'm new here and wanted to know if it is common practice for people to choose who they cuddle according to how attractive they are? I've heard a few comments about cuddling with people who are "hot" and "gorgeous" etc.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Im sure many people use a persons looks to filter who they cuddle with.  
  • [Deleted User]Sunflowerfield (deleted user)
    I currently have three non-paid cuddle buddies though didn't find them on this website specifically. With one cuddle buddy we've had some romantic feelings for each other, but haven't had any attraction to the other two. I think it's a normal part of platonic cuddling to experience some feelings but you don't have to act on them.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    edited April 2017
    For me hygiene is much more important than looks. I'm not cuddling for a date nor am I looking for anything remotely related to forming relationships beyond platonic friends. I don't care how attractive my platonic friends are, they are human with feelings and needs not a face/body type to me. Same goes for cuddling connections I make. 

    Bad breath or stinky pits/dirty clothing is a big turn off in close proximity. That is much more important than looks to me. PS I am a professional Cuddler. 

    Welcome to the site!
  • pmvinespmvines
    When it comes to friendships or anything non-romantic looks don't really matter to me. I know I'm not the prettiest person for certain, so I don't pass that kind of judgment on to others. It is important to clock though, which ties more into personality, sense of humor, etc.
  • MorpheusMorpheus
    Attractive can mean many different things. I think you mean, specifically, physically attractive. I've only seen pros from this site and personally speaking, I think they're all physically attractive.
  • pmvinespmvines
    re my above post I meant to say connect, not clock, lol
  • great_pillow08great_pillow08
    Jessica!
    I have ALL THE SAME "concerns" with this as you do. I've only met to cuddle with 1 person so far because the first guy was married and after he met me, realized he'd want more than just cuddling. I appreciated his honesty more than he knows, but any and all communication ended after that. Whomever said above that the same dangers that exist in online dating exists with this isn't wrong. Just be honest and ALWAYS meet in punlic places first. Trust your instincts. I've now met someone and actually cuddled and it was great! I don't really "look for" someone I'm attracted to and I think that'll help make sure it never goes any farther than cuddling. It's going to be different for everyone though. Just trust your instincts... ALWAYS!!! Good luck!
  • [Deleted User]TeYa (deleted user)
    edited April 2017
    @fireandblue That's EXACTLY how I feel! Thank You! @pmvines I agree. @fireandblue how did you become a professional cuddler? When I click on professional cuddler it brings me to home page.

  • [Deleted User]CuddleBandit (deleted user)
    edited April 2017
    Message a person that you're interested in cuddling with and hope that they respond. Don't bother messaging them if they have been inactive for weeks or months. You can also message a professional cuddler and pay for a cuddle session. That's your best bet.  Good luck (: 
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    @ChubbyCuddlah I sent you a private message 

    ps love your name, I lived in West Newton for a while and totally get the accent reference  ;)
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