Thoughts on the cuddle sutra?

Just curious what you all think about it? To me it just happens to be a book finding new cuddle positions and ideas so I'll likely download it.

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  • edited November 2020

    It's good if your intended doesn't have the words to explain what they might like. Plus it's free so... πŸ’β€β™€οΈ

    *edit ~ That said, there's something about the pull of comfort that sucks you in and there aren't really positions as much as a wrap around energy that makes knowing where one ends and the other begins near impossible and beyond unimportant to try and define/illustrate.
    Set boundaries, go with the flow and enjoy...

  • It's quite heteronormative and seems to be aimed more at romantic couples, but other than that it's a pretty good guide to a wide range of cuddle positions.

  • I dont personally get into doing all the positions and seeing how much I can cram in. Kinda takes away the spontaneity . If its a good cuddle you will know what to do and what feels right no need for a diagram

  • I got it and love it! It's got some great ideas πŸ’‘ πŸ‘Œ ☺

  • I was cuddling somebody once and she opened it on her phone, we did maybe one position from there but we ditched the phone and just had fun finding good positions ourselves. There are some good ideas there though and it can be used as an icebreaker as well

  • I would second @pmvines ... as a person who generally loves cuddling in my experience both partners’ body types and several situational aspects come into play. Having read and knowing the diagrams in the back of your mind may be a good idea but trying to re-enact maybe be a buzzkill

  • [Deleted User]verona (deleted user)

    For someone new it could make it easier for them to open up and not be as nervous then again it could be overwhelming at the same time. So I would allay equally good and bad ?

  • Is it a cuddle position app? I have been looking for a cuddle book to bring with me , to try new positions , and I have yet to find one so maybe that will be the second best thing ! I haven’t thought to look for a cuddle position app .

  • @HoneyB94 It's not an app, but it's available free on the internet if you search. Sounds like it will be your second best thing.

    Although, when I skipped through it I didn't find anything I hadn't done, so keep your expectations modest.

    It's a tool: like any tool, if the right person uses it in the right way in the right circumstances it will be brilliant. On the other hand ... you can't clean a contact lens with a bulldozer.

  • [Deleted User]StarCaptSilas (deleted user)

    I think it's a great resource to expand one's world of cuddling. Cuddling doesn't have to be just spooning!

  • edited November 2020

    @DakotaB
    @HoneyB94
    @CuddleDuncan
    @AceofCuddles

    Here's a link to download, "The Cuddle Sutra" for free.

    Enjoy... πŸ₯°

    edit | Huh... there's an Android app for that...

  • Awesome ! Thankyou so much , I will definitely look through it ☺️

  • [Deleted User]MiamiFisher (deleted user)

    Just curious. Since there is a wealth of experts on this site. Perhaps a book could be developed? One that is more inclusive, illustrates positions for platonic physical expression across the lifespan. This book could be illustrated to help the novice feel more comfortable and challenge those with adequate experience to share this culture. Perhaps there could also be a section devoted to people telling their story, the benefits of authentic cuddling, and where we are heading. Does this interest anyone?

  • @MiamiFisher ~ Yes! πŸ“ƒβœπŸ“‘πŸŽ¨πŸ–ŒπŸ–Ό>πŸ“˜πŸ“–πŸ«‚πŸ’“

  • I thought it was super cute and recommend the free download if you can find it!

  • [Deleted User]AshleysEmbrace (deleted user)

    I have to agree with @quixotic_life and @pmvines

    Its an interesting book, though the positions seem to be more for romantic couples that are cuddling just while laying around the house and watching TV. For me whether its a romantic or platonic cuddle partner I enjoy letting things come organically rather than "what's a new cuddle position" which I feel can take away some of the relaxing tranquility of just melting in eachother's arms.

    If its a free app though I definitely think its worth the download, ultimately I am happy I bought the book (didn't know about the app at the time πŸ˜‰)

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