Did you ever regret not reaching out to some1here because they ended up leaving before you could? 😔

cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
edited December 2020 in General

So everyday on the top feed of the main page we get to see the new cuddlers on the site, & they all vary from different parts of the country as well as different parts of the world ... well I happen to see someone who was in my neighboring state & their pic was nice so I decided to click on it, their profile was amazing & I realized right away that she was less than 10 miles from me so I really became intrigued but decided not to message because I figured she might be bombarded with messages , so I decided to give it a week or so before I messaged, & she’s already gone : ( has this ever happened to you? Is it just best to reach out when you realize someone might be a great potential cuddle partner regardless if they are very new or not?

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  • CUD_maleCUD_male

    i do like to send out welcome message to any women i see thaT are in UK. Some maybe to far away to meet up with & most don't reply. Some i get days of chats & others have turned into meetings. So i wud say to contact when u see them.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    My sympathies to the OP. I also learnt this lesson the hard way, many years ago.

    Always get in touch. If you want to, always do it.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Thank you @CuddleDuncan will definitely take your advice!

  • MelanieLMelanieL
    edited December 2020

    @introvme...it never hurts to reach out to people. Attempt to make that connection because you never know what will come of it . =)

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    You’re absolutely right @MelanieL ☺️

  • hillbillyhillbilly

    The last person that I messaged thru this site closed their account that same night. Had to make me wonder if even a simple, innocuous greeting was so offensive it drove her to leave. I def regret saying those super creepy things like "Hi" and "Welcome"

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Depends what comes after a Hi in messages. One cuddler once told me she had a guy who started off with “Hi Sugarbritches, I am not diabetic but you could change that by sitting on my face.” So some of the hi or hello messages are definitively creepy.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @hillbilly don’t take it personal, i myself been in the same ir similar situation where I would reach out very nicely & kind & have received no response ... I do admit that I don’t share much on my profile, & I also know that comments like @FunCartel mentioned do not make it any better for the rest of us.

  • [Deleted User]APV (deleted user)

    There have been several newer enthusiasts in my chosen area and my roots area who I wanted to reach out to but they left so quickly before I could even conjure up a decent message to send. Some have deactivated within hours of my first-ever viewings of their profiles.

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