I'm kinda requesting some help here. I live (essentially) in San Diego, a wonderful city on the Southern California coast where there is plenty of people to meet and mingle with. It's not too uncommon to jump onto CC and at the start see a new member that just signed up for cuddles who either lives in San Diego or within 80 miles of this location.
I feel like since I logged on and saw them, initiating an interaction is placed in my hands. I usually start with a very generic greeting as in: "Hello! Welcome to the website! I hope you have many wonderful experiences from here. What brought you to the website?" And unfortunately that's where a lot of the interaction ends. I'd say about a solid 99% of them don't continue past that point, though they'll log on, come to my profile and take a look. So I hope they know I can see when I get a visitor because that's a standard feature given to all of us on this site... But still no responses.
So if it doesn't bother anyone who comes across this thread I'll ask: Please come to my profile and take a look. My profile isn't too intensive but I feel like there is something I've selected or said in my bio or maybe a picture etc... that is making me highly unattractive to people I attempt to communicate with. Please, you can be brutally honest and rip me a new one for all I care (I've found an odd inner peace that makes this website no longer very necessary to my life though my overwhelming "success" [sarcasm] doesn't aid in me staying around either...) on this thread. Of course, friendliness is welcomed and well received, but if you are overwhelmingly offended by something, don't be too shy to let me know. Please and Thank you to all! =]