Bear

56 - Man - Chicago, Illinois, US
"I like to cuddle while Talking, giving a massage. Holding space. "

About me

Hi I am a cuddle slut.


My my given name is John, most friends call me Bear Or JohnBear ( He/Him )

I am in a long distance relationship with a woman who is in an open relationship . She is fine with me cuddling others.


I’m always open to meet someone first to make sure they feel comfortable in regards to cuddling. Anything from some thing as simple as a hug to meeting for a tea or coffee.


I enjoy talking, massaging, and caressing while cuddling. I’ve been to cuddle parties, where I learned to respect boundaries. I also enjoy doing energy work, as well as energy healing while cuddling. I also do positive affirmations and healing affirmations with people.


I am also good at holding space. Or providing a Cwtch
A shoulder to lean on or an ear to bend.
I’m vaccinated & boosted about 4-5 times since 10-22-24
I now share my home with a rescue dog. She’s adorable. Princess Cinnamon, she cuddles with me.
NW side 60641

I love being a big spoon. I love to cuddle. Especially in the winter.

I can also do a realistic cuddle & hugs texts for energy sensitive people

My boundaries in the past was no touching of bikini zones with well known cuddle party friends. I have no issues with touch elsewhere. I always check in with my partner, especially if they are new. Especially before I do hand placement, or move my hands.

One thing that I have to mention. I am a caregiver in nature. Besides the caregiving, I gave to my mom before she passed, and my father recently, I tend to always make sure people are comfortable around me, as well as taken care of. This is also one of the reasons I started doing The healing energy work that I do. One of the things I look forward when I cuddle by a pro is too be the one to be taken care of. Though sometimes I’m not aware and don’t know how to shut it off.


I think I took this down a little too soon because I’m still explaining. Plus I believe I wanted to get past it easier. I was caregiving for my father and the last few years and he moved in with me in February 2023. He passed away in June 2023.

Facts

Join Date September 2013
Orientation Straight
Status In a relationship
Cuddles Women
Can be Host, Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening, Night
Fav. Movie Comedy, action, sci fi ,
Fav. TV Show Police drama , comedy, sci fi
Location: Chicago, IL
Height 5' 11"
Body Type Overweight
Car Owner Yes
Pets Yes. 🐕 I have more than a few pet rocks.
Drinks Rarely
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Other
Job Yes
Children Has no children

wanacuddle85


3 weeks ago

Bear is honestly the sweetest! He is always sending me morning messages and hugs! He is a great person. I would love to get the chance to have a session with!

HealingSystem


1 month ago

John came over today, the experience was incredibly healing to me, I'm definitely continuing to talk to him in the future.

C•••••4


5 months ago

I have chatted with Bear on here a lot. I had a question for him so we did a quick call. He’s a really nice guy, and I think he’d be a great cuddler. 🐻

Bear
5 months ago

Cuddlehugs01234 is one of the reasons it's so enjoyable to be here and meet people such as her. She leaves with a warm welcome feeling.

Paigetwentytwo


5 months ago

Bear was a joy to meet & cuddle with. Very polite, intuitive and intelligent. I enjoyed his natural and genuine healing energy and his ability to respect and ask consent as we cuddled. Recommend cuddler and I look forward to a future session.

MajesticMango


7 months ago

Dear John Dragon Bear 🐻 thank you so much for helping me grow the bond between myself and my metaphysical self ✨ thank you for opening yourself up to me. I love the conversations we had. I loved the depth we shared and how much we explored. Thank you for holding me while I had my emotional releases💙 thank you for making me comfortable to have them.
And I can’t forget about Princess!! She’s the sweetest little thang ever! I’m so glad that you two have each other ☺️
I can’t wait to come back to see how much she and yourself grow.

deleted cuddler


10 months ago

I had the most remarkable experience with Bear today. My first experience with energy work was nothing short of amazing. After our time, I felt as though a huge burden had been lifted from me. I am so glad I’ve met Bear and look forward to future time and connection with him.

ashlyn83


1 year ago

Bear is kind, thoughtful, intelligent, and a genuine joy to cuddle with. I can’t wait to have the next cuddle sessiom. =^_^=

o•••••r


1 year ago

Attentive, respectful, cozy, warm, easy going cuddle companion. Will cuddle again.

Bear
1 year ago

Thank you oxytocin Hunter. I’ll definitely look forward to cuddling again.

J•••••s


1 year ago

Bear has been by far one of the most kindest and respectful gentle soul. From the start, the energy work was amazing as it allowed our session to flow fluidly. Bear gives the best cuddles and makes you feel at ease. It was a wonderful experience and amazing cuddles by far! I look forward to more cuddles 🥰

CozyWolfy


1 year ago

I have lots of Awesome virtual cuddles with John!! He is such a great guy and caring person and he's a good boundary respector:) He is great with checking in to see how I'm doing and iv come to consider him a good friend 😊 hope one day we can meet up for irl cuddles 🥰

A•••••l


1 year ago

Bear lives up to his his name, lots of bear hugs and teddy bear comfort. There were no issues with boundaries or communication, he's extremely respectful and sweet. I fell asleep because he was so peaceful and comfortable. Our conversations from the start have been hilarious, but very personal. Bear treats people how he wants to be treated, no matter if side-by-side or 200 miles away. He wants to share his positive energy, even if it's thru a text.
Please treat Bear with kindness! He's a very gentle soul.

T•••••i


1 year ago

I have so many wonderful things to say about Bear! We've been doing text/phone cuddles and I have walked away from each session feeling a cuddle high. He's very skillful in using energy to make the experience as real as possible and I'm better for my experiences with him.

Also, he was excellent at attuning to me and making sure that I felt comfortable with everything happening. I tend to be VERY shy, but he was great at creating opportunities for me to speak my mind and share my boundaries.

I wholeheartedly recommend Bear as a cuddle buddy! 🥰

alarisrain


2 years ago

A deeply caring, nurturing and sensitive soul. Johnbear is full of warmth and kindness to share. He will take great care that you feel safe. It was incredibly beautiful and healing to share space, energy and affection with him. An honor. His hands, gaze and embrace project warmth and healing. Please take the opportunity to cuddle with this very special human if you can. 💗

SoftestCactus


2 years ago

Bear gives, hands down, the beary best bear hugs! He's very affectionate, kind, and nurturing. He's very concerned with how you are feeling and what you are experiencing, and he wants to do everything he can to ensure your comfort and wellbeing. He cares about nature and people. He sends me the beautiful green energy from trees. <3 True gem of a person. Looking forward to cuddling him again!

KeeleyShoup


5 years ago

Bear is a beautiful kind and gentle person. He is witty and fantastic to talk to. He is an expert energy worker too, if you are a fan on energy work. I can't reccomend snuggles with this lovely human enough!

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