SoftestCactus

38 - Woman - Tucson + Richmond (US)
Fee: 85/hour - Can be: Guest, Public
Professional

About me

*I'll be in Richmond: July, August, & September 2026*

*please respect my time and don't message me unless you are actually intending to schedule a session*

I've been doing this professionally for about 7 years now. I was originally trained through cuddlist. I've worked with folks who have trauma, with folks who are neurodivergent, and with folks from all walks of life and levels of ability.

Respect my body, respect my time, respect my experience. The respect is mutual, and I look forward to building long-term caring yet professional relationships.

You can host either in your home, a hotel, or a public place like a movie theatre or coffee shop. I am unable to host at this time.


Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$85
3 Hours+ | 10% off 3hrs
- 10% $230

Facts

Join Date March 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening
Fav. Movie Only Lovers Left Alive
Fav. TV Show Black Books
Location: Tucson, AZ
Location #2: Richmond, VA
Height 5' 6"
Body Type Average
Car Owner Yes
Pets No
Drinks Socially
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Agnosticism

jimjam808


1 month ago

SoftestCactus is very kind and made me feel very comfortable. She is easy going and has a way of putting one at ease. Highly recommended. Looking forward to seeing her again!

e•••••y


6 months ago

Amazing! Kind, funny, and easy going, the perfect combination. Made my trip that much better. Thank you!

deerteeth


7 months ago

SoftestCactus is fantastic! Always felt safe, and comfortable. She has experience with bringing more introverted people out to a safe area to open up. It’s nice building bonds, and I can’t recommend them enough.

Taran88


7 months ago

Kind, gentle, and emotionally intelligent in so many ways. It didn't take long at all for me to be at ease and feel extremely comfortable during our very first meeting. The experience was cathartic and well worth the time spent. Looking forward to seeing her again.

C•••••L


8 months ago

I just enjoyed a happy, relaxing cuddle with Cactus. First we met for dinner, then during our cuddle session we talked and laughed a lot (I provoked a few laughs when I made ghoulish Halloween sounds). I enjoyed it when we held each other close. I loved it when I would inhale, and Cactus would immediately breathe in sync with me … we were a lean, mean, breathin’ team, I’m tellin’ ya! I highly recommend a cuddle with this warm, empathetic sweetheart.

U•••••g


8 months ago

Her username really says it all. She’s gentle (soft) yet strong and resilient (cactus). She’d make a wonderful teacher. She taught me how to be both comfortable and confident even when I feel uneasy. I know there’s still so much I can learn from her. I just wish the session didn’t have to end.

deleted cuddler


8 months ago

It was nothing short of extraordinary to spend time with SoftestCactus. She brought me such a sense of serenity during a really difficult time, and I am so grateful for our time together.

deleted cuddler


9 months ago

It was a pleasure meeting and cuddling with softest cactus. She was able to put me at ease and we were able to get comfortable for our session. She was very kind, genuine, and it was great to just share in each other's presence. I look forward to meeting with her again!

deleted cuddler


11 months ago

It was awesome meeting softest cactus. It didn’t take long feel comfortable talking and laughing with her and I genuinely believe that she is just a kind person is general. I really do hope our paths cross again!

bigsqueezebear


1 year ago
repeat client

SoftestCactus is a warm, cozy cuddler with a lot to offer. She knows how to read the vibe and responds accordingly. Great to talk to, we discussed several good topics. But she is also great to just quietly cuddle and listen to music with.

b•••••m


1 year ago

SoftestCactus was my first cuddling experience, I must admit that she absolutely went above and beyond to crush expectations of a first timer and made the whole session very pleasant and very comfortable, absolutely amazing, she’s a very beautiful person all around.


Very professional to say the least.

deleted cuddler


2 years ago

I recently had an amazing session with SoftestCactus and wanted to post. She is an extremely intuitive cuddler and a wonderful person. We had a great conversation as part of our session that was absolutely wonderful and made the session even more special. I highly recommend her as it will be a refreshing experience for both your body and mind.

TeeJayTee


3 years ago

They are simply the best. Warm and friendly from the outset, they put me at ease. Their cuddling was exactly what I needed for both body and soul. Conversation flowed easily and immediately after I left I couldn't wait to do it again. A beautiful person.

CloudFormations


3 years ago

SoftestCaftus provided a welcoming and soothing environment for awesome cuddles and conversation. We connected through our shared passion for music and literature and swapped recommendations, which I really appreciated. I definitely enjoyed our session and look forward to seeing them again.

B•••••r


3 years ago

Last night I got to cuddle with Softest Cactus. I am so glad I did. They were a warm and wonderful person. Made me feel comfortable and cozy. They were a pleasure to be with. I would definitely cuddle with them again.

C•••••7


3 years ago

I've been planning a cuddle session with SoftestCactus for some time now and the day finally arrived! I was a little nervous at first, but they made that go away quickly with their warmth and friendliness. Such a warm personality and was very responsive in the different ways I wanted to cuddle. For instance they knew when I wanted a tight hug or hair playing. Definitely loved every moment and felt so relaxed and at peace. I was actually a bit tired when I got there, but felt so refreshed, even more so than when taking a nap and I was awake the whole time. Had nice conversation and the time really flew by. A truly amazing cuddler and overall person. I definitely want to see them again in the future.

S•••••s


4 years ago

I had the pleasure of meeting SoftestCactus on our way to a group cuddle, and they instantly put me at ease. Loved the conversation and discovering shared interests. I really wanted to cuddle this sweet soul, but they were highly sought after and I haven't had the chance, yet! Hope to meet up again, soon, and can't wait to get to know them better. Keep rocking this world!!!

S•••••s


4 years ago

SoftestCactus draws from a deep well, and is super comforting. There is no prickly with this one ;). SoftestCactus is a generous, genuine, and compassionate human, drawn to this work to be a contribution to others. I enjoyed our conversation fully as much as the cuddles, and welcome any time we will get to connect in the future!! 😊

Thank you for the healing you share with the world 🌎 ❤️.

s•••••y


4 years ago

What an absolute doll this woman is. 😊

Like many before me have said, she is warm, wonderful, calm and a true depiction of what the cuddle world is all about. She has so much tenderness overflowing from her being that you can't help but be "sloshed upon" with all sorts of goodness.

We didn't have NEAR ENOUGH time to share more than a few stories, but I can tell this one is going to be highlighted in my "soon to see again" cuddlers list.

Hire her. Hire her NOW!!! Your body and soul will thank you. 🌈🌻🌼🦋🌞

C•••••4


4 years ago

Moth was a joy to spend time with, seldom have I ever felt so deeply cared for and loved. Looking forward to our next healing session.

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