SoftestCactus

38 - Woman - Richmond + Tucson (US)
Fee: 100/hour - Can be: Guest, Public
Professional

About me

*I'll be in Richmond: July, August, & September 2026; I don't have a car while I'm out here, so please be prepared to cover my transportation costs if you're more than a few miles from downtown Richmond*

*Please send an intro of at least a few sentences re: who you are, what kind of cuddle experience you're hoping for along with the general timeframe, & a current photo.*

*I don't do last-minute bookings. I have a very full life, & I also need time to prepare mentally/emotionally/physically to give you my full attention during each session. Thank you for understanding!*

I've been doing this professionally for over 7 years. I was originally trained through cuddlist. I've worked with folks who have trauma, with folks who are neurodivergent, and with folks from all walks of life and levels of ability.

Respect my body, respect my time, respect my experience and the respect will be mutual. Please have good consent practices & clear communication.

I look forward to building long-term caring yet professional relationships.

What a session looks like:
You can host either in your home, a hotel, or a public place like a movie theatre or coffee shop. I am unable to host.

We can listen to music, chat, watch TV or movies, breathe together in silence. A session can be playful, cozy, silly, cathartic, relaxing. I enjoy many modes of being together; let's talk about the kind of experience you're craving, & we can co-create that! Once we've booked a session onsite I'll give you my number for easier communication (but please keep in mind I have a life outside of my phone & may not respond for 12-48hrs).


A little about me:
This is my primary source of income, as I have several chronic illnesses which make a traditional work schedule impractical for me. I'm also a writer (nonfiction and fiction, short & long), an artist, and a vocalist.

I love music of all genres, poetry, good food of all varieties from all cultures, travel, hiking, nature, animals (although I'm allergic to furry pets, so please vaccuum beforehand and give me a heads up so I can take extra allergy meds). I'm into things like tarot & meditation *as well as* science--especially botany, neuroscience, biology, systems thinking, and quantum physics.

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$100
3 Hours+ | 10% off 3hrs
- 10% $270

Facts

Join Date March 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening
Fav. Movie The Green Knight
Fav. TV Show Game of Thrones
Location: Richmond, VA
Location #2: Tucson, AZ
Height 5' 6"
Body Type Average
Car Owner Yes
Pets No
Drinks Socially
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Agnosticism

S•••••s


4 years ago

SoftestCactus draws from a deep well, and is super comforting. There is no prickly with this one ;). SoftestCactus is a generous, genuine, and compassionate human, drawn to this work to be a contribution to others. I enjoyed our conversation fully as much as the cuddles, and welcome any time we will get to connect in the future!! 😊

Thank you for the healing you share with the world 🌎 ❤️.

s•••••y


4 years ago

What an absolute doll this woman is. 😊

Like many before me have said, she is warm, wonderful, calm and a true depiction of what the cuddle world is all about. She has so much tenderness overflowing from her being that you can't help but be "sloshed upon" with all sorts of goodness.

We didn't have NEAR ENOUGH time to share more than a few stories, but I can tell this one is going to be highlighted in my "soon to see again" cuddlers list.

Hire her. Hire her NOW!!! Your body and soul will thank you. 🌈🌻🌼🦋🌞

C•••••4


4 years ago

Moth was a joy to spend time with, seldom have I ever felt so deeply cared for and loved. Looking forward to our next healing session.

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4 years ago

What a bomb cuddle session. Moth is so incredibly awesome, super chill, great conversationalist, great hugger, and very astute with music. We listened to so much good music. Spent a while dancing, so much fun. Her musical knowledge is bar none, so much fun listening to so many musical genres and artists. What a classy, smart, and compassionate woman. I’m visiting Tucson and she enlightened me to some good things to do on my off time. What a thoroughly enjoyable evening. Highly recommend!

i•••••1


4 years ago

Moth is graceful and gentle, bright, warm, intuitive and very comfortable and pleasant to be with. A sweet human with light and a gift. My time with her was healing and I highly recommend her to all looking to unwind in the comfort of one who creates a warm space with a dedicated positive vibration. Thank you, Moth!
🙏❤️☯️

s•••••g


4 years ago

I had a session with Moth yesterday and really enjoyed her company. We had alot of things in common. She is a very kind, caring person.
I'm excited to see her again.

jerry50003


4 years ago

I really enjoyed the relaxing time with the softest cactus. Easy to talk with and she is a good listener as well as a good cuddler. I will definitely book again.

R•••••9


4 years ago

Had an amazing time SoftestCactus! She has a sense of calm about her and was able to lower my anxiety immediately. We had some of the same taste in music which was nice to talk about. She is extremely caring and nurturing. She is a pro and I cant wait to book with her again.

t•••••x


4 years ago

Very pleasant and delightful! Great cuddler all around!

indianacuddler1


4 years ago

100% real and warm wonderful cuddles! We talked and connected on many levels. Feeling happy an so lucky to have met up, really looking forward to our next time!

tamborillero


4 years ago

I'm hardly ever at a loss for words, but it's hard for me to describe how supremely wonderful cuddling with Moth was. Time stood still. Since the moment I first laid eyes on her, I wanted to tightly cuddle this gorgeous, sweet, and extraordinarily intelligent soul and not let go. Being in her embrace was a beautiful adventure, imbued with a profound affinity that effortlessly consummated our time into a truly majestic experience. I came away so grateful knowing I had just had one of those rare, beautiful, and deep connection experiences. It is my sincerest of hopes that I be able to cuddle this spectacular being over and over interminably.

G•••••1


4 years ago

Pleasant young woman with vibrant energy! Treat her like the Gem she is!

c•••••4


4 years ago
repeat client

A truly great, considerate, thoughtful, lady!

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4 years ago

Like a breath of fresh air our time together was very enjoyable. Great conversation and energy. Thank you Moth :-)

H•••••l


4 years ago

Moth is an amazing cuddler. Her embraces and hugs were very soothing, and she emanates a wonderful energy. I look forward to cuddling with her again.

VaughnCuddles


4 years ago

I had a great time with Moth! She was very welcoming and kind. I felt completely relaxed and safe in her presence. A true Cuddling professional!

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4 years ago

Moth was both an amazing person and cuddler. I was nervous at first but her conversation and touch made me feel completely relaxed by the end.

deleted cuddler


4 years ago

Has a very calming energy and a soothing touch. Would enjoy to cuddle again :-)

deleted cuddler


4 years ago

Moth was super sweet and affectionate. She is super loving in her hugs. Had a very good conversation and loved how she helped build it up slow. I totally forgot about all my stresses and felt like a totally new person.

deleted cuddler


4 years ago

I just had a wonderful cuddle session with MOTH (Manufacturer Of Total Happiness); I was hoping I could sprout extra arms so I could hold her even closer! I loved feeling her breathing and her giggling, and I enjoyed our conversation. It was a joyful experience, there’s no one I’d rather be trapped inside of Biosphere 2 with, lol!😊

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