SoftestCactus

38 - Woman - Richmond + Tucson (US)
Fee: 100/hour - Can be: Guest, Public
Professional

About me

*I'll be in Richmond: July, August, & September 2026; I don't have a car while I'm out here, so please be prepared to cover my transportation costs if you're more than a few miles from downtown Richmond*

*Please send an intro of at least a few sentences re: who you are, what kind of cuddle experience you're hoping for along with the general timeframe, & a current photo.*

*I don't do last-minute bookings. I have a very full life, & I also need time to prepare mentally/emotionally/physically to give you my full attention during each session. Thank you for understanding!*

I've been doing this professionally for over 7 years. I was originally trained through cuddlist. I've worked with folks who have trauma, with folks who are neurodivergent, and with folks from all walks of life and levels of ability.

Respect my body, respect my time, respect my experience and the respect will be mutual. Please have good consent practices & clear communication.

I look forward to building long-term caring yet professional relationships.

What a session looks like:
You can host either in your home, a hotel, or a public place like a movie theatre or coffee shop. I am unable to host.

We can listen to music, chat, watch TV or movies, breathe together in silence. A session can be playful, cozy, silly, cathartic, relaxing. I enjoy many modes of being together; let's talk about the kind of experience you're craving, & we can co-create that! Once we've booked a session onsite I'll give you my number for easier communication (but please keep in mind I have a life outside of my phone & may not respond for 12-48hrs).


A little about me:
This is my primary source of income, as I have several chronic illnesses which make a traditional work schedule impractical for me. I'm also a writer (nonfiction and fiction, short & long), an artist, and a vocalist.

I love music of all genres, poetry, good food of all varieties from all cultures, travel, hiking, nature, animals (although I'm allergic to furry pets, so please vaccuum beforehand and give me a heads up so I can take extra allergy meds). I'm into things like tarot & meditation *as well as* science--especially botany, neuroscience, biology, systems thinking, and quantum physics.

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$100
3 Hours+ | 10% off 3hrs
- 10% $270

Facts

Join Date March 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Guest, Public
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Morning, Afternoon, Evening
Fav. Movie The Green Knight
Fav. TV Show Game of Thrones
Location: Richmond, VA
Location #2: Tucson, AZ
Height 5' 6"
Body Type Average
Car Owner Yes
Pets No
Drinks Socially
Smokes No
Ethnicity White
Religion Agnosticism

Clos_Abraham


2 weeks ago

Softestcactus was amazing! My anxiety went away and I felt comfortable almost immediately. She's kind, funny, and has a great personality. The time flew by as we talked and cuddled, next time I'll be sure to book more time if possible.

PrinceDon


1 month ago

Softestcactus is a wonderful young woman. She looks even better in person than in her pictures. And that's just a bonus, because she's also a remarkable cuddler. She greeted me with a warm hug and that instantly put me at ease. She made me feel very comfortable and nothing was awkward about our meetup. She took the time to understand what I liked and delivered with skill. I was putty in her hands. MELT! She's a true professional and you can tell she has a lot of experience. I absolutely can't wait to see her again.

s•••••n


1 month ago
repeat client

Softestcactus was a wonderful cuddler and very easy to communicate with my schedule. Since she easygoing and patient with me, I felt very relaxed throughout the entire process. I enjoyed hearing about her hobbies as time fly by so quickly. She is also full of experience wisdom, I look forward to more I could learn from her.


jimjam808


2 months ago

SoftestCactus is very kind and made me feel very comfortable. She is easy going and has a way of putting one at ease. Highly recommended. Looking forward to seeing her again!

s•••••h


7 months ago

Amazing! Kind, funny, and easy going, the perfect combination. Made my trip that much better. Thank you!

deerteeth


8 months ago

SoftestCactus is fantastic! Always felt safe, and comfortable. She has experience with bringing more introverted people out to a safe area to open up. It’s nice building bonds, and I can’t recommend them enough.

Taran88


9 months ago

Kind, gentle, and emotionally intelligent in so many ways. It didn't take long at all for me to be at ease and feel extremely comfortable during our very first meeting. The experience was cathartic and well worth the time spent. Looking forward to seeing her again.

C•••••L


9 months ago

I just enjoyed a happy, relaxing cuddle with Cactus. First we met for dinner, then during our cuddle session we talked and laughed a lot (I provoked a few laughs when I made ghoulish Halloween sounds). I enjoyed it when we held each other close. I loved it when I would inhale, and Cactus would immediately breathe in sync with me … we were a lean, mean, breathin’ team, I’m tellin’ ya! I highly recommend a cuddle with this warm, empathetic sweetheart.

U•••••g


10 months ago

Her username really says it all. She’s gentle (soft) yet strong and resilient (cactus). She’d make a wonderful teacher. She taught me how to be both comfortable and confident even when I feel uneasy. I know there’s still so much I can learn from her. I just wish the session didn’t have to end.

deleted cuddler


10 months ago

It was nothing short of extraordinary to spend time with SoftestCactus. She brought me such a sense of serenity during a really difficult time, and I am so grateful for our time together.

deleted cuddler


10 months ago

It was a pleasure meeting and cuddling with softest cactus. She was able to put me at ease and we were able to get comfortable for our session. She was very kind, genuine, and it was great to just share in each other's presence. I look forward to meeting with her again!

deleted cuddler


1 year ago

It was awesome meeting softest cactus. It didn’t take long feel comfortable talking and laughing with her and I genuinely believe that she is just a kind person is general. I really do hope our paths cross again!

bigsqueezebear


1 year ago
repeat client

SoftestCactus is a warm, cozy cuddler with a lot to offer. She knows how to read the vibe and responds accordingly. Great to talk to, we discussed several good topics. But she is also great to just quietly cuddle and listen to music with.

b•••••m


2 years ago

SoftestCactus was my first cuddling experience, I must admit that she absolutely went above and beyond to crush expectations of a first timer and made the whole session very pleasant and very comfortable, absolutely amazing, she’s a very beautiful person all around.


Very professional to say the least.

deleted cuddler


2 years ago

I recently had an amazing session with SoftestCactus and wanted to post. She is an extremely intuitive cuddler and a wonderful person. We had a great conversation as part of our session that was absolutely wonderful and made the session even more special. I highly recommend her as it will be a refreshing experience for both your body and mind.

TeeJayTee


4 years ago

They are simply the best. Warm and friendly from the outset, they put me at ease. Their cuddling was exactly what I needed for both body and soul. Conversation flowed easily and immediately after I left I couldn't wait to do it again. A beautiful person.

CloudFormations


4 years ago

SoftestCaftus provided a welcoming and soothing environment for awesome cuddles and conversation. We connected through our shared passion for music and literature and swapped recommendations, which I really appreciated. I definitely enjoyed our session and look forward to seeing them again.

B•••••r


4 years ago

Last night I got to cuddle with Softest Cactus. I am so glad I did. They were a warm and wonderful person. Made me feel comfortable and cozy. They were a pleasure to be with. I would definitely cuddle with them again.

C•••••7


4 years ago

I've been planning a cuddle session with SoftestCactus for some time now and the day finally arrived! I was a little nervous at first, but they made that go away quickly with their warmth and friendliness. Such a warm personality and was very responsive in the different ways I wanted to cuddle. For instance they knew when I wanted a tight hug or hair playing. Definitely loved every moment and felt so relaxed and at peace. I was actually a bit tired when I got there, but felt so refreshed, even more so than when taking a nap and I was awake the whole time. Had nice conversation and the time really flew by. A truly amazing cuddler and overall person. I definitely want to see them again in the future.

S•••••s


4 years ago

I had the pleasure of meeting SoftestCactus on our way to a group cuddle, and they instantly put me at ease. Loved the conversation and discovering shared interests. I really wanted to cuddle this sweet soul, but they were highly sought after and I haven't had the chance, yet! Hope to meet up again, soon, and can't wait to get to know them better. Keep rocking this world!!!

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