SoftestCactus

*I'll be in Richmond: July, August, & September 2026; I don't have a car while I'm out here, so please be prepared to cover my transportation costs if you're more than a few miles from downtown Richmond*

*Please send an intro of at least a few sentences re: who you are, what kind of cuddle experience you're hoping for along with the general timeframe, & a current photo.*

*I don't do last-minute bookings. I have a very full life, & I also need time to prepare mentally/emotionally/physically to give you my full attention during each session. Thank you for understanding!*

I've been doing this professionally for over 7 years. I was originally trained through cuddlist. I've worked with folks who have trauma, with folks who are neurodivergent, and with folks from all walks of life and levels of ability.

Respect my body, respect my time, respect my experience and the respect will be mutual. Please have good consent practices & clear communication.

I look forward to building long-term caring yet professional relationships.

What a session looks like:
You can host either in your home, a hotel, or a public place like a movie theatre or coffee shop. I am unable to host.

We can listen to music, chat, watch TV or movies, breathe together in silence. A session can be playful, cozy, silly, cathartic, relaxing. I enjoy many modes of being together; let's talk about the kind of experience you're craving, & we can co-create that! Once we've booked a session onsite I'll give you my number for easier communication (but please keep in mind I have a life outside of my phone & may not respond for 12-48hrs).


A little about me:
This is my primary source of income, as I have several chronic illnesses which make a traditional work schedule impractical for me. I'm also a writer (nonfiction and fiction, short & long), an artist, and a vocalist.

I love music of all genres, poetry, good food of all varieties from all cultures, travel, hiking, nature, animals (although I'm allergic to furry pets, so please vaccuum beforehand and give me a heads up so I can take extra allergy meds). I'm into things like tarot & meditation *as well as* science--especially botany, neuroscience, biology, systems thinking, and quantum physics.