Hi! I'm fairly new here. I'm 52, a woman and I'm pretty comfortable with who I am. Sadly, there doesn't seem to be any cuddlers out here in Singapore who are in my age group. I can't be too old for cuddling, right?
I was contacted by a younger dude, young enough to be my son. He's 22 and wants to meet in a hotel. I said no because he's a guy, I don't meet strangers in hotels and he doesn't have a photo on his profile. Well, he obliged with a photo. So I said we need to meet in public to talk and see if we comfortable with each other to want to cuddle. Also, that first meeting is important because that's where rules can be set. He's pretty persistent about the hotel and said we can chat there and people will not judge him for being with a woman who is so much older.
Ouch!
So, am I being oversensitive? Overthinking things? I doubt. I've reached an age where I've realised people will judge, regardless of what you do. Yet, whose opinion matters more? I'd rather be true to myself and hold myself dearly.