😞The biggest mistake you did in your life. Bad friends

edited October 2021 in General

😱The biggest mistake I did in my life i didn't study well, too many failures in my life.even my failures chase me in my dreams . I wish I was literated😔👨‍🎓👨‍💼👨‍💻. If you're well educated you are rich inside. I used to sit at the back, run from school. When I come into the uk same thing not attend college, bad friends made me use drugs which destroyed my life caused me depression,anxiety,laziness,failure. ☝️ advice your children not to choose bad friends . My brother lost his mind using drugs begging money in the streets.

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  • Hey man, I would just like to tell you that it is never too late. The human brain is an amazing thing and has the ability to repair itself in really profound ways.

  • @Ahmedali999 - Sad to hear that about your brother. :(

  • @MCcuddles2 thanks I have to run just to pay my bills ☝️ when I have the time i would like to read i feel jelouse about literated people always watch your children to choose good friends.
    Bad friends can lead you to hell.

  • edited October 2021

    @Nicksnuggs I'm the one who was curious about drugs and tought him , then he followed his bad friends. Now he is slave begging money and selling drugs on behalf of someone. When police catch him he pass the case because he is mental.

  • The biggest mistake I ever did in my life was following the crowd a little longer than I should have / not believing in myself sooner / worrying about what others think constantly & trying to make others happy instead of myself.

  • @cuddles_ndream i had same issue I worry what others think and try to make them happy instead of my self .

  • Buying a 4 family apartment building just before the housing market crash and becoming a landlady. Not only did was I almost crushed by the strain of the experience (LOTS of problems I won’t go into) but I lost half of my life’s savings. As a result I’m going into my older years with half the savings I’d planned on.

  • Oh my goodness... @Babichev ~ That sucks!
    ((Hugs))

  • @Babichev sorry to hear that ☝️ but I have good advice for you always pay charity and God will bless your money.

  • [Deleted User]sage_wisdom (deleted user)

    The biggest mistake I have made so far is trust people who didn’t deserve it and be too willing to help people.

  • @sage_wisdom 🔥🔥🔥 I felt that 1!

  • @sage_wisdom ☝️ don't let betrayers stop you from helping others

  • [Deleted User]edh96 (deleted user)

    Over the last 18 months, I've had "friends" leave or never heard from them again once I stopped initiating and let go of people who were very unhealthy for me. Now I just talk to 3 people mainly on a regular basis - my childhood friend, my nephew, and my long time online friend from Brazil. I have another long time friend who's more of an acquaintance now but we have each other's back and talk occasionally just to catch up. And I have a group chat that I've made and built up over the past year of 8 people who are all soccer fans just like me and mostly compatriots of mine from Bosnia.

    I talk to everyone over text, phone, and video, though, never see them in person apart from my nephew from time to time. As a result, I'm feeling very freaking lonely and depressed on top of other mental health issues I was already dealing with long before the pandemic. But I can happily say that I have people around me that I want and are healthy for me now and all the bad weeds have been cut out last year. Now I just need to work to keep it that way for the rest of my life.

  • [Deleted User]Saysoh (deleted user)
    edited October 2021

    This is absolutely my opinion and perspective that pertains to my life so take it with a grain of salt. I don't think there's such a thing as a mistakes, only solutiuons. Life, friendships, relations all rovolves around adapting to change. Everyone can literally beat themselves up over, "mistakes," but did you learn from them? Are you the more wise? If so, then they werne't mistakes. Life isn't linear. It's very dynamic and for ME, not adapting to that and having to dwell on the past without learning, then I never progressed as a human.

  • [Deleted User]sameyeam (deleted user)

    I also regret my "friendships" from high school, they were a very bad crowd, they did hard drugs, used each other, back stabbers, etc. I had many betrayals and have been stabbed in the back by many "friends" over the years and not just high school, had many fake friends in my 20's as well. I only can say I had a couple genuine friends, unfortunately one passed away from suicide and the other died from an unknown illness. These days its really hard to connect with new people because of the ghosting trend.

  • My biggest mistake happened earlier today. Luckily I caught it before logging out. Im new here and I accidentally uploaded a pic of my DL as my profile photo. It was up for about 5 minutes till I noticed it. I thought I deleted it but I guess not so I grabbed the wrong one. The site here dont show what what your pic is after uploading it. No thumbnail or preview. I contacted the site through suggestions that that they should make it so we can see a preview of our profile pic before it goes live. I am a member of lifelock so I'm not that concerned about it. There were like 8 visitors that seen it but they all looked like people that wouldn't be the type that would do anything sinister with it. Then again I cant trust anyone over the internet. So ya that was my mistake.

  • I split 10’s once in Vegas! 😖. Big mistake 😂

  • The biggest mistake I ever made in my life was not giving a friend the benefit of the doubt. I insulted him, and I should have just been patient. And I lost a friend.

  • @edh96 happy to hear that, you can join gym,do volunteer work,yoga classes ect, where u can meet new people.
    @sameyeam my statues uesd to be same as yours only different they destroyed me and my brother but I'm recovered
    @OhioMike 🤣🤣👌👈
    @Mela_B you still can bring your friend back by apologising and gifts 🎁🎁
    @MJA78 😱 OMG

  • @Saysoh it's too late to learn but i learnt to advice others to train and keep an eye 👀 their children from bad friends. Bad friends can destroy futures and have many disadvantages . always make sure children choose good friends,what activities they're doing ect.

  • Giving too much of myself to someone who wound up being not as serious as I thought they were.

  • The biggest mistake I have made so far is trust people who didn’t deserve it and be too willing to help people.

    @sage_wisdom Same. Particularly giving people another chance when they’ve just shown me they don’t deserve my trust or help.

  • @OhioMike the casinos here in Colorado will let you split any two face cards/10’s. I asked why and they said it’s always in the houses favor to let you do so.

  • [Deleted User]creedhands (deleted user)

    I bought a used truck for $12,000 on a credit card. When the housing market crashed in '08, business tanked, and almost had to claim bankruptcy. But I learned a lot about debt and credit, and live perspective through that experience. After seeing the light of day 5 years later, I found I did not struggle with depression as much as I had before the whole incident.

  • @Ahmedali999 it took me 9 years to earn my bachelors degree and 2 more years to earn my masters degree so 11 years total. A little at a time is better than nothing at all.

  • @Morpheus amazing, happy for you. I did bricklaying course then found apprentice end up,fired,failed and not for me.

    Now the good thing doing,security, concierge with agency but ☝️no achievemens

    All because of bad friends

  • Probably working at a company for almost 10 years where they didn't value me and they allowed supervisors to yell at the employees. It took a long time for me to find a different job where I knew I would be valued. 😒

  • Mistakes should be treated as opportunities to learn lessons and use them as stepping stones to climb higher. My still ongoing mistake is procrastination but somehow Allmighty has been very kind and benevolent to keep showering me with his bounty. No complaints, no regrets in life.

  • @DimpleGirl glad you found a good job and become more stronger. 💪
    @RayWah well said 👌

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