What Led to Seek Strangers Cuddling You?

Not here AT ALL to judge your intentions. Either good or not so great, it’s the discovery that matters.

I was in a touchless relationship, no physical connection, not even holding hands. I was drying out. Meeting the right person here helped me understand my disability and fixed it by leaving that situation.

I sought what I wanted and needed.

cuddles_ndream

Great question, just be careful as people won’t ask you what you mean , what you’re thinking / they will tell you what you mean & what you’re thinking.

I rarely get friends that want to do anything with me (movies, restaurants, cuddling, etc.) and I wanted my life to feel whole again because i miss human interaction. So here i am.

Morpheus

What led me was being out of town for work and not really knowing anyone so I wanted to human contact.

sunnysideup

Missing physical contact, but didn't want to necessarily pursue a whole relationship for just one aspect.

SleepySheep1

Traditional therapy was helpful, but physical touch in a safe space where I was allowed to leave at any time/ask for what I needed/discuss boundaries without it being weird or shameful was immensely helpful.
Now I hope to help others the way I have. 🤗

exitstageright

I sometimes see strangers as friends that I have not met yet. And, my women friends are not into cuddling.

WriterGF

Not having anyone I know to do it with.

Mare_Bear

Hook up culture is brutal

speedrsr2001

To have someone to hold and care for you without any expectations. Take the critical and judgement out of it.

Ahmedali999

I'm with @speedrsr2001

Morpheus

One of the things I like about hiring pros is that at least for me, there’s no relationship or attachment and the things that come with relationships such as emotions etc. It’s really nice for me to be able to have that intimacy with someone that I have no ties with and can then let it all go once the session is over.

saxman

No one has ever listened to me and I have been pushed away both the old line of "You're too nice. I see you like a brother. I just want to be friends," only for "the rules" to change to, "I have a (jealous) boyfriend." I have become so affection starved that I have had to resort to this service to try and help myself. The only other alternative would be to hiring a prostitute, I have have too much self respect for that, even though this service is making me feel that I am on the borderline of still doing that.

I do not know how to communicate in social situations because my need need for (non sexual) intimacy and touch is too strong for others to understand, unless I were to break down and cry but not ne even gives me the time of say to even begin THAT process.

sunnysideup

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UCpaaHVg6u0

When we cuddle we aren't strangers for long. I think cuddlers are special people, and I'm willing to become open to them.

@UCpaaHVg6u0 i agree, as soon as i am secure around a cuddler im an open book.

Maverick07

@Khrysler @speedrsr2001 @UCpaaHVg6u0 Agree with you all

speedrsr2001

There’s something g about someone that is knows what they want.., getting a hug from a stranger seems more rewarding and genuine to me… then again.. I haven’t cuddled yet with a stranger

LAU24

@saxman Please don’t feel bad for that. There is nothing wrong with hiring a cuddler or even a escort just for cuddling. Regardless what others think, we have our own needs and wants that others don’t necessarily understand.

LAU24

I think most people do it out of loneliness. That’s how I started.

@saxman I'm so sorry that you're feeling that way. There is no shame in hiring an escort, if you need to get your needs met and you should not feel bad about it. We're all human at the end of the day.

I got into this because I love helping people and making them feel special, plus I was curious and here I am.

lilithgrowlithe

I never really thought about the how honestly. I am just a person that enjoysbohysical touch and needs cuddles to live, and I was very lucky to find a place where I was able to find other like minded cuddly people!

lilithgrowlithe

I never really thought about the how honestly. I am just a person that enjoysbohysical touch and needs cuddles to live, and I was very lucky to find a place where I was able to find other like minded cuddly people!

nurturingman

It’s not that they have to be strangers; it’s just that I love to cuddle, and not all of those I’m close to (including my partner) want to cuddle the way I want to. Besides, it’s also that I want to cuddle others who crave it. If they be strangers, they won’t be strangers for long!

Cuddlestogo64

It is one way to get my touch needs met.

robroo

I wasn't getting any attention at home. Was constantly pushed away and ignored. Spent a long time being alone and depressed.

I'm more interested in the difference between professional cuddling and organic cuddling and how they feel respectiviely.

nurturingman

@Saysoh have you tried both?

Tons of normal cuddling. Haven't hired a pro yet, but I'm meeting for a public thing in a week.

Nature_Lover_

I joined this site by recommendation of a friend who thought that this might be something I would really enjoy. Very true assumption that was as I have never been happier! I have had some amazing adventures which have included laughing, crying, traveling to, and cuddling with some incredible humans I would have otherwise never encountered in my normal circles.
I’m a single mom and prior to joining this site can easily say I was touch deprived. Cuddling, even with friends I haven’t met yet, or strangers if you will, has helped alleviate my loneliness and brought me such a sense of contentment and wellbeing that I even very swiftly deleted my dating app. While networking in Austin I connected with an amazing pro cuddler who said exactly the same thing, that she deleted her dating apps after joining this site and also that she was more often than not in a state of deep contentment as a result of the cuddling.
@Saysoh Cuddling has proven to be the best form of self care for my mental and physical health and well-being. Despite not “organically” working into it over a longer period of lead up and while navigating obstacles such as a relationship or social norms and expectations ect, the end result, that cuddling and connection, heals and satisfys me just the same as when I “organically” obtain it. I’m telling you, cuddling, companionship, friendship, and connection are all good medicine.

Alcohol. (Just kidding...)