@Mike403 - to properly understand the relationship between “homophobia” and men preferring to cuddle women, you need to read the article, “An Ethnography of Breastaurant Masculinity: Themes of Objectification, Sexual Conquest, Male Control, and Masculine Toughness in a Sexually Objectifying Restaurant.” This article was published in the peer reviewed, academic journal “Sex Roles”.
Here is the summary of that paper as written by one of the paper’s authors. “That men frequent ‘breasturants’ like Hooters because they are nostalgic for patriarchal dominance and enjoy being able to order attractive women around. The environment that breastaurants provide for facilitating this encourages men to identify sexual objectification and sexual conquest, along with masculine toughness and male dominance, with ‘authentic masculinity’.”
NOTE: This paper was peer reviewed, accepted and published then later retracted when the authors admitted it (along with 19 other fraudulent academic papers they wrote) was 100% bull excrement. The authors, who are real professors, were making a point about how shoddy, ludicrous “academic grievance studies” (their words not mine) get published in peer reviewed journals as long as their conclusions fit the popular narrative.
In explaining why they wrote this paper and submitted it to the journal “Sex Roles”, the authors stated they wanted, “to see if journals will publish papers that seek to problematize heterosexual men’s attraction to women and will accept very shoddy qualitative methodology and ideologically-motivated interpretations which support this.”
You can read an in depth article about the professors and their 20 hoax “academic grievance studies” research papers at…https://areomagazine.com/2018/10/02/academic-grievance-studies-and-the-corruption-of-scholarship/
I do peer reviews on cocktails.
Polarity. The energy of a man, I don't produce well, even though we all possess both energies. When I cuddle with a masculine man, I feel some etheric circuit run its complete cycle in a way that it doesn't when I share hugs with women. Frankly, I'd like more of it!
Double post..
@teddybear888
This casual insistence that a guy should blindly, selflessly allow/accept/welcome someone who would come into this situation with deception and guile? It’s a deep deep violation. The worst. Would you expect anyone to have a favorable reaction to fraud? A deeply personal & intimate fraud?
So you think a trans woman existing as her authentic self is fraud/deception?
I wholly understand, and agree with, your statement that cuddling is intimate and requires honesty and being vulnerable. How safe is it for a trans woman to be that vulnerable, versus a non-trans man?
At the end of the day, whose life is more at risk due to genital status at birth? It seems pretty irrelevant to require disclosure of circumcision status if we're just here for platonic cuddles if the vibes are good