Opening up.

Andy1996Andy1996
in General

First of all, I would just love to wish everybody hear a happy new year.
Something that I have noticed about myself, is that it seems like a lot of people that I meet seem to really open up to me about a lot of dark things going on in their lives.
I am wondering what it is about me that causes so many people to open up to me about things. Could it be that I am easy to talk to? Could it be that I am just approachable?
I especially noticed that I tend to open up to a lot of people especially when I’m cuddling. And I definitely do think that it is a wonderful thing. Because of the relaxing feeling it provides. Especially the platonic nature of it.

Comments

  • Mela_BMela_B

    I'm sorry to see that this got missed. Happy new year to you too. 🎉

    It sounds like maybe people sense that you're receptive. Or perhaps you have a reputation as a good listener.

  • xandriarainxandriarain

    Yeah I think Cuddling in general makes people want to open up. It’s a lot less pressure than a face-to-face conversation. The cuddling itself puts people at ease and makes them feel safer sharing.

  • BabichevBabichev

    I find that the more I open up to people, the more they open up to me. And listening.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited January 2022

    Sometimes when you open yourself to others it doesn’t go well.

    This needs to come with a warning: it’s gross and bloody. - Babichev

  • NicoSnuggsNicoSnuggs

    @FunCartel - Suddenly my appetite has changed…

Sign In or Register to comment.