xandriarain

29 - Woman - Huntingdon Valley + South Brunswick Twp (US)
Fee: 150/hour - Can be: Host, Guest
Professional

About me

⭐️I host in South Brunswick, NJ & Huntingdon Valley, PA
⭐️ I can also come to you
⭐️ I require a minimum of 24 hours notice
⭐️ I require a consultation call and a 50% deposit before your first session
⭐️ Sessions are two hours minimum & eight hours maximum
⭐️ My hours are 12 pm- 9 pm
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Section 1: The Basics (About Me, Credentials, Availability, Rates, Discounts, Code of Conduct)
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About Me:
Long before I made a career out of it, cuddling has been my happy place since early childhood. Whether it was family, friends, romantic partners, pets, and even stuffed animals, I would cuddle every chance I could get. I feel so fortunate to be able to share my passion with you.

Credentials :
-Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Penn State University-2018
-Cuddlist Trained-2021
-Snuggle School Trained-2022
- Platonic Touch Academy-2024

Availability TBD
I am currently recovering from injury and waiting to see a specialist for a prognosis. I will update as soon as I have an idea of when I can get back to Cuddling.

*For outcalls, please message me regarding my availability.
* Want a date after this? Please message me for availability.

Rates
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30-minute Pre Session Consultation= Free

Regular Rates (Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and all outcalls)
2 hours= $300 (this is the minimum)
3 hours = $450
4 hours = $500
5 hours = $550
6 hours = $600
7 hours = $650
8 hours = $700 (this is the maximum)

* First-time clients are required to make a 50% deposit
*Travel costs are included except for parking fees
*Accepted Payment Methods: Emailed invoice via Square (must be paid ahead of time), Pay Pal, Venmo, Cash App, Apple Pay, and Cash.

Discounts:
-Bundles & memberships available to returning clients
-Book your next session before you leave and get 10% off

My Code Of Conduct:
1. I only see clients who are 18 or older
2. We both agree to be free of mind-altering substances and, therefore, fully able to give consent. (No drugs or alcohol)
3. We both agree to practice consent and pay attention to personal boundaries at all times
4. We will communicate what is mutually comfortable throughout the session
5. This is a strictly platonic service, and we both agree not to pursue or encourage sexual arousal.
• The minimum clothing is a tank top and shorts ( I do not take clothing requests)
•No hand-to-genital, breast, or buttocks contact or intentional genital stimulation of any kind
•No kissing on any part of the body
• No hands under clothing
• Nothing kink or fetish related
•No grinding/ dry humping
6. We both agree to have good hygiene for the session (this includes a recent shower, clean clothes, fresh breath, and deodorant)
7. Your confidentiality will be respected
8. Either party may end the session at any time

Section 2: Packages & Add ons
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Cuddle & Hiking Package! 🥾🏞️🫂
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Includes:
•90 Minutes of Cuddling
•30 minutes of Lunch In the Park (Lunch is on me)
•60 Minutes of Hiking
•Approximately 30-60 minutes of driving between places
•About 4 hours total
Cost: $360

Terms and Conditions:
•3 hours are allotted for all activities (cuddling, hiking, lunch), and up to an hour is allotted for driving
•Timing and order of activities are flexible as long as it is within the 3-hour timeframe.
•If it rains, we can substitute the hiking time with more cuddling or an alternative indoor activity like bowling, axe throwing, etc.
•If boundaries are violated, the session will end early with no refund.

*In light of recent discussions about non-cuddling services being allowed, I did check in with a moderator about this package offering and got the green light.
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Cuddles with the Cookie Wookie Woo! 🐶 🐾🦴
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Cookie is a giant furry potato that loves to cuddle. She has the face of a puppy, corgi's legs, and a potato's body. She grunts like a pig when receiving affection and is generally the cutest thing in the world. I can bring her to my South Brunswick office or your home. (Unfortunately, no pets are allowed in the Huntingdon Valley office.) Sessions with Cookie can be 2 or 3 hours, and there will be a $30 fee which will go towards the cost of her and her sister's care and vet bills.
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Section 3: The Devil Is In the Details (Booking Process, Covid-19 Statement, Deposit Policy, Hosting Space, Transportation, Home Visits, Non-Discrimination Policy, FAQs)
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Booking process: 💻📲
1. In your first message, include your name, the location, date, time, and session length you would like to have.
2. Once we agree on a time and a place, I will send you a booking request.
3. After you have confirmed the booking request, we will exchange numbers and set up a video chat.
4. After the video chat, you will send me a 50% deposit for the total cost of the session to my Venmo, PayPal, Apple Pay, or Cash App.
*No appointment is official until we video chat. Do not book a hotel until we have video chatted.

Deposit Policy 💰
I require all new clients to leave a 50% deposit after our video chat consultation if we both decide we want to move forward and have a session. I accept Apple Pay, Cash App, Paypal, and Venmo. I can also send an invoice to your email via Square. These deposits are non-refundable. The deposit can be applied to a future session if the session is canceled with more than 48 hours notice. If the session is canceled with less than 48 hours' notice, the deposit will be forfeited, and another deposit will need to be made if you want to reschedule. If you cancel with more than 48 hours notice and reschedule and end up canceling again, even if it is 48 hours or more in advance I will need another deposit if you would like to reschedule a third time. In the rare event that I have to cancel, your deposit will be refunded.

My Hosting Space 🛏
I host sessions in my two office locations (Huntingdon Valley, PA & South Brunswick, NJ). Each office has a comfortable queen-sized bed, lights that can be any color you would like, a galaxy ceiling projector, and an aromatherapy machine with a collection of essential oils for you to choose from. I have a Bluetooth speaker and TV in each office and offer complimentary snacks and beverages. I have Spotify, Netflix, Hulu, Disney Plus, and Amazon Prime for entertainment. Hygiene is super important to me, so I put clean sheets on the bed for every session.

Transportation 🚘🚆🚍
Both of my office locations are in the suburbs, and the best way to get to either of them is by car or ride-share service. If you do not own a car, I am willing to pick you up at a local train station or bus stop before the session and drop you off after. The closest train station to the Huntingdon Valley office is Somerton, and Princeton Junction is on my way to my South Brunswick office. I am willing to pick you up and drop you off at either of these aforementioned train stations free of charge, as they will take very little additional time for me. I am unfamiliar with the bus routes, but if you have a place you would like me to pick you up we can discuss it to see if it is close enough or if I would have to charge an extra fee or ask you to get a ride share service.

Home Visits 🏠
I can also come to your home or wherever you are staying if you cannot make it to my office.
I do not charge extra for this service, but I do require that it be 90 minutes or less from my starting point (Levittown, PA 19057) and that the session is equal to or greater than my round-trip drive. I will ask you to cover any parking fees if I have to pay for it,

NYC:
I will not drive to any of the boroughs of NYC.

Non-Discrimination Policy: 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️⚧👨🏽🧑🏻‍🦲👵🏿🧓🏾👩🏼🧔🏽‍♀️🧕🏼🧟‍♂️🧛🏼‍♂️🧚🏻‍♀️🧞‍♂️🧜🏼🐶🐱🐹
I welcome you no matter who you are or what your background is as long as you are 18 or older and are willing to respect the container of platonic cuddling.
- there is no upper age limit
-LGBT Friendly
-All relationship statuses welcome (Single, Married, In a relationship, etc.)
- All ethnicities welcome
- all body types welcome
- all religions and cultures welcome
- all genders welcome
- disabled are welcome (but please inform me so I can accommodate)
-Neurodivergent folks are welcome
- I will cuddle with pets if you host but can't have pets in my office, unfortunately.

FAQ's 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️🙋🏼

Q: Do you host?
A: I host in my office in Huntingdon Valley, PA 19006 and in my South Brunswick, NJ office from 12 noon to 9pm seven days a week. Both of these locations are within driving distance from my home so I can be at either location on any day.

Q: Why do you have a two hour minimum
A: Short answer I find that this is the minimum time needed to get the full benefit of the experience and to be worth the time and preparation I put into each session. You can read the long answer here: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/20640/why-i-have-a-two-hour-minimum#latest

Q: How often do you wash the sheets in your office?
A: For each and every session, I put a clean set of sheets and blankets on the bed.

Q: Do you charge for travel?
A: My rates are all-inclusive, and there are no extra travel fees except for parking fees.

Q: Can you do a session today?
A: Not unless you booked with me yesterday or earlier. I need to know the night before at the very latest if we are going to have a session. I am not on call waiting around for somebody to book me last minute.

Q: Do you offer virtual sessions?
A: Not at this time

Q: What do you wear?
A: Soft, comfortable, cuddle attire (eg. leggings, sweatpants, t-shirts, tank tops). I do not take clothing requests unless it is due to a fabric allergy or sensory issue.

Q: What should I wear?
A: Please refer to cuddle comfort's client service agreement for what is and what is not appropriate. I suggest you wear comfortable clothing like pajamas, sweatpants, gym shorts, and a tank top or t-shirt. Underwear/ boxers are not a substitute for shorts and all pants/ shorts must not have an opening in the crotch area. If you come to my office I have t-shirts and shorts available in sizes small, medium, large, XL and XXL.

Q: Do you offer skin-to-skin or nude cuddling?
A: No, the minimum clothing allowed is shorts and a tank top, I generally wear leggings and a t-shirt and do not take clothing requests unless it is to avoid a fabric allergy or sensory issue. I will not take any clothing requests that involve wearing less fabric or more revealing outfits.

Q: What can I expect from our session?
A: I usually spend a little time talking and getting to know you during the first session before we start cuddling. We can talk, listen to music, cuddle in silence, or watch TV during the session.

Q: What happens if I get an erection during the session?
A: If you get an erection we will not act on it and we will ignore it. We will make sure to be in a position where I am not coming into contact with it and if necessary we can take a break.

Q: How far do you travel?
A: I will drive a maximum of 90 minutes each way or three hours round trip. The session length must be at least the length of the total travel time unless you plan to compensate for the extra time. Please note that I only travel to places that I can drive to, and I do not fly to other parts of the country or do overnights or multi-day sessions.

Q: Can you come to Manhattan, NYC?
A: I do not travel to any of the five boroughs of NYC.

Q: How long are your sessions?
A: My sessions are two hours minimum and eight hours maximum. I do not do overnight sessions or multi-day sessions.

Q: Where do we cuddle?
A: You can come to my office, I can come to your home, or you can get a hotel room. I ask that the hotel be clean, safe, and respectable, and not a cheap motel. I will not cuddle in cars, parks, or other public venues because these locations pose safety and privacy concerns and are not as enjoyable as cuddling in a bed or couch.

Q: I am unable to do a video chat or feel uncomfortable
A: While I strongly prefer a video call in the initial consult, I am willing to do a phone call instead of a video call.

Q: I am unable to make an electronic deposit
A: If the issue is having a paper trail of having a cuddle session, there are some discreet ways to make a deposit: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/15675/discreet-deposits/p1?new=1
However, if you don't want to make a deposit, I cannot work with you.

Q: Do you offer massage?
A: I am not licensed or trained in massage therapy. I can give you a brief massage over the clothes (e.g back shoulders, neck scalp, etc). However, massage will not be the main focus of our session.

Q: Do you do Reiki or other forms of energy work?
A: Not at this time

Q: Am I expected to tip?
A: My rates are all-inclusive. Tips are always appreciated but they are never expected.

Rates & Services

1 Hour+
$150
4 Hours+ | 4 hours for $500
- 16% $504
5 Hours+ | 5 hours for $550
- 26% $555
6 Hours+ | 6 hours for $600
- 33% $603
7 Hours+ | 7 hours for $650
- 38% $651
8 Hours+ | 8 hours for $700
- 41% $708

Facts

Join Date July 2019
Cuddles Everyone
Can be Host, Guest
Preferred Days Sun, Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu, Fri, Sat
Preferred Times Afternoon, Evening, Night
Location: Huntingdon Valley, PA
Location #2: South Brunswick Twp, NJ
Height 5' 6"
Car Owner Yes
Pets Two dogs, one guinea pig, no pets in office
Drinks No
Smokes No
Ethnicity White

Doctego


1 month ago

This was my first experience and she made it as simple as possible. Her communication was on point before and during the session and she was very professional. I will gladly see her again.

teleporter01


2 months ago

I had wonderful experience with Xandria. Very professional and a good soul. I would definitely go back to her whenever I am in need.

WillCuddle44


4 months ago

Xandria is in one word - AMAZING! She somehow balances consummate professionalism with a very observable focus on your needs during the session. She is very adept at being present for you and working with you to explore various aspects of cuddling as a form or therapy. I was very impressed at her ability to stay engaged, attentive, and help me explore different aspects of cuddle therapy during our time together. I believe she sets the standard for how this type of practice can be taken seriously as a legitimate approach to therapy, while making sure the human touch aspects are front and center as the focus. Can’t say enough good things about her and her approach. Looking forward to cuddling with her again soon.

xyzzy12


8 months ago

I had a wonderful first-time cuddle session with Xandria. She is a very warm and kind person, and she is very good at making a nervous first-timer feel comfortable and welcome. Also, she is a great conversationalist; we talked about a wide variety of topics, and the cuddling is very conducive to getting one to open up and make a real connection. I strongly recommend her as a cuddle partner.

E•••••3


9 months ago

Super nice, thank you for your service!
Nobody will ever disappointed with her.
Recommended her.

Desisid2


11 months ago

Xandria is the quintessential professional cuddler. She sets the standard for others to emulate. From the initial connection, to the intake consultation, to the session itself, every step was well organized and made me feel very comfortable. The session itself was beyond compare! She is an incredibly warm person, enveloping me in comfort and peacefulness. She has a variety of cuddling positions to choose from with varying degrees of connection, and we rotated through a few different ones as the three hours flew by. Pleasant and interesting conversation, some quiet interludes, lots of laughs. Her location has the perfect vibe as well. I am very impressed by her efforts to learn about my cuddling needs, and also her focus on me to continually improve my experience even in the course of the session. Looking forward to additional sessions, and for me it was well worth the long drive to go cuddle with her. Highly recommend to anyone looking for a very satisfying and comforting platonic cuddling session.

cuddlingmood


1 year ago

Xandria is so so special. I couldn't have left our session feeling better. Very professional and an absolutely amazing cuddler. Highly recommend

wijjt


1 year ago

To be honest, I was nervous and feeling guilty. I had just lost my wife suddenly a few weeks before our session. She put me at ease and helped me open up about the sadness I had been feeling. The experience was positive and professional; I hope to repeat it when my life calms down.

Dex001


1 year ago

After my first oxytocin boost just a month ago, I thought CC was cool. So, reach out to Xandria, and wow was I glad I did. Xandria was so perceptive. She picked up few things about me that people tend to take long time to know. Cuddle creates magic. She not only picked it up, she actually complemented me for them. Rare indeed. For someone who tends to feel lonely, that was a beautiful experience. I was impressed with how carefully she had thought through client experience : the room, the lighting, the sound and the aroma. It took the experience to another level. I am so looking forward to meet her again.

cuttlefish


1 year ago

Xandria is a professional through and through. She is a great cuddles and time just flew by with her. I have no reservations on recommending her and continuing visits!

m•••••s


1 year ago

Xandria was professional , empathetic, wonderful cuddler and we had some deep conversations. Thank you

r•••••h


1 year ago

xandriarain Is a great cuddler. Very professional with a very nice setting. Time flew by with her.

J•••••7


1 year ago
repeat client

She sets herself apart with her professional set up. A wonder session that will have going back.

N•••••o


1 year ago

I’ve struggled to come up with words that are sufficient enough to describe how amazing my experience with Xandria was. “Life Changing” is the best I can do. I waited for literally years to pull the trigger on a professional cuddle provider. I had a ton of questions and concerns. Xandria answered all of them, and more, with impressive attention to detail. I will be a regular user of these services now, thanks to her demeanor, professionalism, and positive energy.

m•••••a


1 year ago

Thoroughly enjoyed my time with Xandria. She’s very welcoming and accommodating. Definitely connected at a deeper level which allowed me to de-stress. Looking forward to even more sessions.

nicktrender


1 year ago

Had a great session with Xandria. She’s genuine, easy to talk to, and an amazing cuddler. I felt very comfortable around her and felt right at home. I highly recommend her !

PS : The two hour car ride was definitely worth it.

s•••••y


1 year ago

Xandria is an amazing cuddler. She gives me some accommodations that I needed. She’s very kind and very relaxing to cuddle with. She taught me what kind of cuddle positions. I learned from her. I’ll look forward to see her next time 😊

BGD1241


1 year ago

First the rating. 12 stars out of 5. Outstanding. Incredible. Unbelievable.
The experience - I suffer from major depressive disorder and I've had a really bad year. My wife left me. I lost my job. Etc. etc. By last week, I was at the end of my rope. I felt like I just couldn't take life any more and I had to do something different out of desperation. While broiwsing YouTube videos, I found one about a professional cuddler - who knew there was such a thing - and a little Google searching found me Xandria.
I was extremely nervous going - I had trouble sleeping the night before just because of the appointment - but I finally left my apartment for the first time in days (weeks maybe?) and went.
We met and talked for 15 minutes or so. She was warm, receptive and just lovely. When we finally got to the cuddling, it took a while for me to get comfortable, as I haven't been around people much. We tried a few different things. By the end of the session I was just lying there with her head on my chest and I never wanted the moment to end. I could have stayed that way for days.
The aftermath - our appointment was 3 to 5 today. It's 7:30 now and this is the best I have felt in years. Literally, years. I don't want to make too much out of it, I'm sure my depression will persist, but for one afternoon and evening, I had a respite from the mood disorder that has haunted me for years. It is such a relief, I could cry.

Thank you Xandria

C•••••9


1 year ago

I was really nervous to try this out for a long while. I haven't cuddled anyone in years and I think it was hurting me more than I could've imagined. Xandria was my first and I plan on going back many more times. She made me feel comfortable, loved, and cared for in ways that up until now, I only could've dreamed of. After spending time with her today, I also feel better than I have in years. We started out really gently at first and she was very patient and understanding with me every step of the way. She really listens and cares and it's very obvious that this is a true passion of hers that means a lot. She's truly one of a kind. I feel really special to have met and cuddled with her.

deleted cuddler


1 year ago

I've had a wonderful time with Xandria! She's so much fun to talk to and comforting. The time just flew by!

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