So, I had browsed cuddlers & enthusiasts in my area sporadically over the past several days, just to get acquainted with the community. I got my age settings in order, along with gender and distance, etc. and that’s when it happened.
Dramatic pause
I added someone to my favorites, and then noticed they were a few years below my lowest age setting, AND that I am a few years above their highest age setting!
cue the distant thunder and screams of horror
This problem was easily fixed by removing the individual from my favorites. But I can imagine easily overlooking this. I probably already have.
I wonder why people with incompatible age preferences are not automatically hidden from each other’s search results. It’s not so much of an inconvenience as it is my vigilance when it comes to respecting boundaries. Being (in most cases) the older of the pair, I’m not on the “exploited” end of a potential power-imbalance, but it’s still something I’d like to be considerate of. You know?
Does anyone else feel the same way? (Or, perhaps I am not navigating the preferences properly)