Do any of you develop platonic crushes (AKA: Squishes)?
I've noticed recently that I've been developing a lot of platonic crushes for quite a few of my friends (and a few cuddlers). It's like a great emotional (but non-romantic & non-sexual) attraction, or just a profound desire to spend more time with them, and (for me, at least) it's usually based on them being extremely talented or knowledgeable about something that I find impressive. Maybe it's just a byproduct of not having a lot of socialization, and I miss spending time with them?
I've also noticed this with a couple of the pro cuddlers I've had sessions with. We'd have really engaging conversations, and we'd end up talking about something they were SO passionate about, that I'd find myself awash with fascination. Often, there'd be quite a bit of laughter, too, which is always wonderful. With many of my friends, we're close enough that I've been able to express my feelings towards them (and platonic 'I love you's), but do you think it'd be a bit much expressed to a pro cuddler? I admit, it could easily be awkward if I said "I miss you", or "I think I have a platonic crush on you..." Perhaps if it's worded differently? "I've always enjoyed our time together, you're a fascinating person, and I'd really love to see you again soon." What are your thoughts, and how do you think something like this could be conveyed without coming across as creepy or potentially threatening? (And I really hope this post doesn't come across that way... (cue social anxieties))