How the cuddlers gel with personality, flow and environment makes body type not as important. “Chubby” or not, all body types are natural and worthy of cuddles.
The answers here surprise me since I have had a noticeable drop in business since my pandemic weight gain. pandemic weight gain. pandemic
The answers here surprise me since I have had a noticeable drop in business since my pandemic weight gain.
pandemic weight gain.
pandemic
Just highlighting that. I don't know the real reason(s) as there could be many but I certainly wouldn't discount what I quoted
@JasonCuddles Possibly but I have seen some of my colleague's businesses blossom and I have increased my offerings by getting a hosting space.
I am glad that chubby has become the new sexy. .
I find zero correlation between body type and my level of enjoyment/satisfaction. I've had great sessions with both thin and chubby cuddlers and not so great with both types. There are many factors more important than body type.
@SammyG It is definitely Ok to prefer trim and fit! I wish my own body was trim and fit but I don't care what my cuddler's body type is. Lol. I just can't eat more dry tuna and less ice cream. Lol.
@xandriarain I wonder if it is not just an odd coincidence. Maybe you are in a little pocket area of temporary sluggish economy. Or some of the cuddlers that want to contact you are having to do other things that they would rather not do.
@DaringSprinter Osseous clattering. That's hilarious!
I don't really think of preferring a body type as discrimination. I prefer someone that likes to discuss most of the same things I do, but isn't a chatterbox (small talk is the worst). I don't think of that as discrimination either.
@Btown I'm with you 💯 , but for me it always has 💕
@xandriarain I think there's something to be said about projecting our insecurities onto other peoples' actions. You are a beautiful person and it could be so many other things!
~ Sunset Snuggles
@achetocuddle and @SunsetSnuggles My business never fully recovered from the pandemic and I have tried so hard to improve in terms of my professionalism, my hosting location, and marketing but I still can't seem to make as much as I did before the pandemic so I always wonder if I am not as marketable as I was when I was thinner.
@xandriarain: Could be the preferences of paying cuddlers differ from the preferences of folks without money... or it could just be that, well, the pandemic's not over. Lots of people are still dying and becoming crippled and all that. Probably cuts down on cuddles.
@DaringSprinter, someone told me that many men who pay to cuddle like to have the fantasy in their head they have a hot girlfriend even though it’s platonic. So although it is physically more comfortable to cuddle with someone with a little extra meat on their bones, I imagine some people focus more on conventional beauty standards than what physically feels good to cuddle with when looking through profiles.
@xandriarain from everything I have seen from you, I refuse to believe that any slowdown in business would be the result of anything but covid.
Chubby cuddles? Why not? I would cuddle with someone chubby. I am too! Hehe. 😋👍🏾💕
I think the best is a little on the chubby side. If someone is too big, it can be limiting in terms of what positions are still comfortable.
Us big ol teddy bears 🐻 are the best.
@xandriarain my professional cuddlers i go to all range in body size but I imagine there are some guys who do want that fantasy unfortunately. All I know is if I'm ever in your area, you'll get a message from me. Hopefully things turn around for the better for you!!!
@xandriarain there is definitely truth in the fantasy story. You don't see it much in the forums, because the forums are not only a very small sample of the membership but an unrepresentative one. Part of that fantasy seems to be age, with younger being better. If the falloff is real, and not just covid-related, perhaps a factor is being 27 rather than 25.
What @CuddleDuncan said is a possibility. For those types of guys, after 25 they are much less interested.
I love soft and squishy !!