@TheFunCartel I most definitely did report him right away. I noticed afterwards that he had literally just made the account yesterday too.
There's a typo on the page when you click on a Deleted user:
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Thank you. That's corrected now.
I’m relatively new so this may have been brought up before but from the main page, the “nearby” shows people with locations that are geographically close, but pretty universally they are all older, inactive accounts. So that function ends up being kind of pointless.
The search includes the ability to filter by how recently an account has been active.
@JoyfulHeart
When you search, I thought members were automatically listed by most recent login.
When you search, yes you can specify recent activity.
I’m referring to the links on the main page, in the blue banner.
If I look at “Nearby” almost all of the results are people who have not logged in for months.
I know now there are many lovely active users nearby but I wonder if a new user might see that and think otherwise based on that first interaction.
Can you take "Word Game" out of time out, ty 😁
Please make clear: 1. Why I'm limited in daily new conversations (I'm female and not a pro). 2. How many daily new conversations I'm alloted. 3. When the 24-hour period for the new conversation allotment starts/stops. 4. Why is my picture hidden in both searches and thumbnails -- is it to keep people from seeing me as a female non-pro? [Edit: picture has become visible.]
Thank you!
Having the option to only show people in your area and being able to change that to see everyone else. Also a search bar, maybe?
@CuddlesWithCat
You can search by people in your area as well as seeing everyone else. Have can save up to I think it’s 3 search options.
Still don’t understand after 90 k views how this thread isn’t stickied you know ? 🤔
Ok so I know there’s a segment of our community that um …. Would prefer that there wasn’t such a thing as professional cuddling … having acknowledged that … I see there has been a change on the cuddle requests Tab where now at the top there is a secondary tab called “Pro Ads “. Why isn’t there a 4th tab called that ? Or at least put it on the professional tab where I think it would be more appropriate?
Curious good folks here would like to know .
We did have it stickied for a while but when we recently reviewed active stickies, it was one of several that got demoted. We don't want too many stickies for usability and engagement reasons.
Pro Requests was just renamed to better describe how that sub-forum ended up (promotion) rather than keeping the original intended symmetry with Cuddle Requests. I know where you're coming from though. Logically it belongs in Pro Cuddling. The reason it's always been in Cuddle Requests is because Pros just kept wanting to post there so we gave them a nudge in the right direction just at the moment they are thinking that. I think it might eventually be taken out of there in a future update where we will try a different approach to preventing that issue.
Thank you Mark for the response 😊. I’m of course not privy to what constitutes a “stickied “ thread but if those are being reviewed I think a bunch of older threads on the professional tab section could be removed as they are “dying on the vine “ so to speak and need some refreshment and newer thoughts and direction.
Hoping it gets its own tab or at least moved to the professional tab , either way I appreciate your help 😊👍
It would also be nice if we could search messages so you can reach back out to people you have cuddled before. I travel a lot for work and don't always remember what city someone was in.
Have a clear policy requiring cuddlers to state upfront in their bios whether they are willing to share a photo or not. Even though my bio already specifies that a photo is required, some still proceed without it and delay for days as if they’ll provide one after booking, which ends up wasting time. This way, I don’t even bother engaging with or messaging clients who don’t intend to meet that requirement.
Praise: I just discovered the notification feature for App mode. That will be very handy when waiting for a message response. Praise: Searching now includes a feature to specify only showing favorites! Very useful when I frequently travel to a certain area. Bug: When searching near a Custom location, modifying other parameters causes the Location to reset to your home and removes the distance filter.
Tell someone their odds of finding cuddles upfront.
I know mine are horrifically low.
A way to modify the date/time of a confirmed booking with a client rather than deleting and having to submit a new proposal.
Have a calendar set up for Pros, especially if they are not cuddling full time. It would be easier to schedule and block out availability, as needed.
@Phoebe7 An About Me section, a picture, a wider age range, and a positive attitude would certainly be a good place to start.
I'd love the option to hide same-sex profiles on my recently visited (esp landing page). I honestly do not care one lick about men clicking into my profile and I'd never click into one if their photoless and gender-agnostic-username wasn't on my landing page.
Feature requests: 1. Ability for Pros to have calendars built in - like Calendly. Removes back and forth. The Pros can still accept or reject booking requests. 2. Ability for Pros to rate clients anonymously - will remove the fear of retribution. 3. Ability for Pros to add hotel charges directly to the fees list.
Shut the forums down.
Or at least let us toggle it out of sight.
It’s a hot mess.
Keep the forums up.
It's super easy to search profiles, message folks, and cuddle someone without ever seeing the forums.
It's a magnificent maelstrom of facts, fictions, and opinions.
I've seen two users with videos in their profiles (one mentioned having 'permission' from the mods, the other did not). Both were appropriate, so no issue, but in my experience on bulletin board-like sites, the interface showed you how to do that, or a FAQ was available with coding tips.
My 'Edit Profile' interface does not have an interface like this forum post (which has buttons for bold, italics, bullets, links & images) nor does it say 'Styling with Markdown is supported...', so, how did they do that? Is there a FAQ anywhere for how to use the Edit Profile interface (on PC) to do things like that? Is special permission required?
For me, I'd like to give a short video tour of the relevant parts of my home, where I host, so that people can see the environment, that its clean and nice, the galaxy lights, moon, sun & salt lamps, the fuzzy blankets, weighted blankets, etc. A moving visual will capture the dynamic nature of things like the changing lighting from the lamps better. Show the living room, entertainment center/set up with the seating/couch set-up for those living room cuddle sessions. Maybe a quick view of the exterior so they can see its a nice house in a nice neighborhood. All of which may ease some of the anxiety around a first time non-public meet.
Is there a FAQ or forum post somewhere accessible to enthusiasts that addresses how to get more than one font and some emojis when editing your profile on the PC?
@MonkeyNeedsAHug I've seen posts from a handful of people over the years who didn't even know the board existed. 😆 Not sure how that's possible, but apparently it's not as obvious to everyone. 🤭
@QuantumAffect You can paste a video link into your profile, but make sure it's not from a site with the ability to contact you, such as YouTube, as that would likely count as sharing contact info prior to a booking.
It is super frustrating that the profiles and PM's do not have Markdown. You can use smilies though, through your phone's keyboard, just as you would in a text:
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I see a lot of people I've communicated with get banned. Someone I cuddled with recently got banned and this is a very big concern for me because I don't know why.
Could my life be in jeopardy and I just got lucky or did he break the rules in some tiny way?
It would be helpful if we know these things. Especially because they can create another account or if we're on another forum that's not here, and they are there too, we wont know why.
Am I making sense?
Maybe for added safety and security of pro cuddlers, they should have an annoynomous review section, one the person who's profile it is can't see. Because if someone had a bad experience with a person, they might be afraid to post about it publically.