the search area should have a distance between 20 and 50 miles.
In Brooklyn NY. Searching through and three out of the ten or so profiles are active, I changed a few search parameters and the result was more profiles that are months to many years of being unused. Is there a way to search for only professionals who have been active the past three months or as recent as today for Brooklyn?
If not, message me please, whatever is most effective. Thanks
Hello @Missing_This , if I’m understanding your question correctly the last online field in the search has four options of today, within a week, month, or year. It would be nice if this was a user input range rather than a preset drop down but that would require a programming change.
I would like to see a search feature added that lists cuddlers by the distance/zip code they are from the searching location. I find that when I search for cuddlers up to 100 miles away from my location it always lists people by the last time they were online which I am not necessarily interested in. Also, I find that if a city is very big like Chicago for example and multiple people list that as their location, then the distance from my city to their location could be huge depending upon what part of the city they live in.
Video chat on here so we can talk yo the person face to face before bookin
A simple improvement would be when searching you can mark profile as "seen" and the ability to soft block any profile so you won't have to see them in search with the ability to unblock at anytime. It would also be helpful if you can chose to have yourself be automatically hidden from people basised on your preference. Let's say if you're 60 and your looking for anyone no older then 50 then with my suggestion you could chose to not to appear on any account that it is younger then 50
Lastly The biggest improvement I would like to see if being in the froums will give you a score with maybe a little icon on your profile since I doubt most scammers will bother to be on here,The idea is to have information in bio that you can't exactly control, "Most liked post" or "number of post" and "number of replays" would really be interesting
After pressing the “request booking “ button I would like to be presented with a display of my booking request details and have option to select “make changes” or “confirm request” before booking is finalized.
The reason so many new Pros advertise in the General or Professional Cuddler section of the forum is because they have no idea where to find the correct place in which to promote themselves - because there actually is a legit place to do it. It’s just buried and difficult to find. I’ve been here nearly 4 years and just found it. Maybe Professional Cuddler Requests could have their own Discussion topic location instead of being hidden in the Cuddle Request section of the forum.
@g_w_t_w When clicking on Cuddle Requests, users could be presented first with two options before proceeding:
Cuddle Requests ↳ Professionals ↳ Enthusiasts
@TxTom Yes I know that. My point is that it would be great if it had its on Discussion heading because now it’s buried and new Pros don’t know how to find it.
I agree that it's confusing.
The current format seems to be this:
- The format may be less confusing structured as this, instead:
@TxTom The 2nd version definitely seems less confusing. But new Pros don’t check Cuddle Requests at all because they’re not “requesting”. They go straight to Professional Cuddlers because that’s what they are. Oh well, I was just trying to help the new Pros and cut down on advertising in the General forum. 🤷♀️
Can we get a BACK button up in here? Would love!! 💕 💖💕
Thanks for everything, this site has helped so much with my winding grief journey.
@mauvefox None of the professionals you mentioned become "professionals" without proving they're worth the pay. That takes a considerable amount of time and effort (I'm not a fan of ANY sport though. Personally, I don't think ANY of them should be paid to do what they "do" but whatev'!!). Cuddling requires none of those things so I 100% agree with your logic. The value in cuddling can't be measured in dollars though. That's where personal character comes into play. You have to have self control and self respect so you can abide by the rules and reap the reward of knowing you just gave someone a gift that can't be bought- genuine comfort. Intrinsic value is a VERY big deal (well, to me anyway)!!
The biggest thing for me is inactive accounts. I mean after say like 6 months or so maybe a temporary suspension or removal of the inactive account. And browse anonymously sounds kinda stalkerish to be honest
Should not allow to give Karma if no session has been booked
Please make usernames searchable in the messages....I spend a lot of time trying to relocate a conversation. It also would be nice to search by location of clients in a certain state so when I travel to that state I can message them more easily. Then searching every page of my past messages. I like to hold on to all of my messages in case I ever need to look back. Idk if this is an easy or difficult fix but it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
A profile score might be a useful addition to this site. There are many ways it could be implemented but as an example each profile might get a certain amount of points per picture (up to, say, the first five pictures) and a certain amount of points per word in their bio. This would be useful in a few ways, such as encouraging folks to fill out their profiles. I imagine it would also help the women on this site feel less overwhelmed by the amount of outreach they get since they could scroll through their messages and only open the ones from people with high profile scores. You could get fancy and include it as a search filter, allowing people to only see profiles with a minimum profiles score of 50%, for example, or even allow users to only receive messages from people who meet a certain profile score threshhold. Overall, I think even a basic implementation would benefit everyone. Men who fill out their profiles would cut through the noise, women would get fewer messages from incomplete profiles, and people with blank profiles would have a very tangible reason to fill out their profiles.
@CuddlesInJax You could populate your profile with pics and words with AI very easily so the profile score wouldn’t matter.
At some point after 4,317,000 pages of responses it would be amazing if they could lock conversation so we don’t have to see posts until the end of time. Examples of this would be.:
Meme war Quote of the day What music are you listening to Sideline companion word Association game Song title game PSA Catfish 101
@WestsideMarc I had already mentioned to have a separate category for Games instead of it being in the General tab (pg 106). No need to remove Word Association Game or Song Title Game, thank you. 😊
@TheFunCartel you’re not wrong. Someone could game the system, but that’s already true today. (I just reported a scammer trying to do just that an hour ago.) This would be more aimed at reducing the noise from people who aee not engaged and upping the visibility of people who are. Will a few people sneak through? Absolutely! But that’s no different than today.
After 90 days of no activity accounts should be disabled
I wish I could get push notifications via text instead of just email for session requests, confirmations, cancellations and/or messages.
would be amazing if they could lock conversation so we don’t have to see posts until the end of time.
You only see posts if you open the thread, so I do not see what is so debilitating about threads that are popular with some members on here.
@cuddlecaravan This might help:
https://help.cuddlecomfort.com/article/33-do-you-have-an-app
It looks like this thread has been going on for almost a decade! Lol some of us probably have kids now or retires from cuddling and got married lol jk but when are they going to actually going to fix some of the things to make this site more accessible to new people. This site needs advertisement like at during the super bowl or something so there are more non/pro cuddlers out there!
Yes, because Super Bowl ads are just so cheap.
May be worth it to get the site more 👀’s on the site