A question: is cuddling a need or a privilege? There has been statements in this thread and forum suggesting both. Food is a need. A fancy restaurant is a privilege. Health care is a need. Cosmetic surgery is a privilege. What about cuddling? It keeps coming up that nobody is "entitled" to cuddle and should not "complain" about not being able to cuddle. Yet it also comes up now and then that people "need" human touch and without it are deprived of living a meaningful or happy life So is it an entitled privilege or a need?
The question is kind of ridiculous as worded. There is no “should” involved. No one has to pay for cuddles that does not want to pay. If you don’t want to pay for cuddles, don’t. Pro cuddlers are available as an option for those who can’t find someone with whom to cuddle for free, for those who don’t want to take the time to get to find and get to know another enthusiast, for those who don’t want the responsibility and entanglement that may come with cuddling another enthusiast, for those who want someone experienced so they don’t have to put up with the awkwardness of an inexperienced enthusiast, etc.
Are you responding to me? If so you must type really fast.
Cuddling or physical contact is something the body needs, but it is a privilege to be able to cuddle someone especially if that person is a stranger that you otherwise would not have been able to cuddle. So cuddling is both a need and a privilege.
@supadupa honestly I thought that movie was trashed. I personally don't care changing current characters. Just make new ones and plan into the history of that character or whatever. Superman was my favorite growing up and still holds a special place in my heart but my favorite superhero now is Static Shock. I was excited to hear Micheal is trying to make that movie.
And to the cuddles it's simple. No one forces anyone to do anything. If you want to pay then do it, if you don't then do the work. If you want to cuddle everyone great if you prefer women or men that's ok too.
Everyone has different preferences and that should be respected.
@BlackKalel its still in development as far as I know. Static shock was a cool cartoon when it first came out but they retconned his origin. And agreed just bring in new characters, but no originality these days. As for cuddling, thank you cuddling professionals 😊
@supadupa I totally agree with you, I am one of those shy guys that when it comes to dating I am at a complete loss. But I have found with cuddling with pros that it's a lot easier, I still have a hard time sometimes but it's a whole lot easier and I hope it ends up helping with my confidence when dating.
@snugbuddy I think cuddling is needed for optimal health, but not needed to survive.
I think that babies may literally die without human touch. Adult humans will be survive but will be in worse health. Just like we’d survive with fast food but not be as healthy as someone who can afford to eat premium ingredients everyday. We don’t consider it a need to healthy everyday, though.
I think that friendship is a need for good overall health as well. But no one is obligated to to be our friend either. Just as in cuddling.
@KamikaziNinja86 once you are comfortable talking to cuddlers then just transfer the new skills and confidence to everyday situations 😊
I feel like people often conflate a want as being a need . People want to cuddle. It is awesome to do . But reality is that you don't actually need it. and anybody who has read any of my posts related to health benefits of cuddling knows that I dont really believe all of that.
That being said , cuddle as much and as often as you can, because it truly is a great thing to do and great way to connect. If that means cuddling a partner or friend, cool. If that means hiring any number of our amazing pros on the site , cool. If neither are an option, though it may be a bummer, dont worry so much and over think it because you will be just fine.
Let that wallet hurt
@HumbleBaron
I'm always baffled by this; I find it hard to understand where the argument's coming from. Cuddles are free. Free cuddles exist. Maybe they're not the cuddles you'd like to be the free ones, but they're out there.
Food is free too. Sure, it may not be food you like—but it's food, and it's free.
You wanna argue that pro cuddlers enjoy cuddling with you exactly as much as you enjoy cuddling with them? You still want to argue that while they're doing all the emotional labor and focusing on making sure you, their client, are having the best platonic cuddle they can possibly provide?
Go get a free cuddle, then. It's not like you're allergic to the types of cuddlers you're not drawn to, and if cuddling's an actual need (like food) then you'll take what you can get, right?
It's not as though we're talking about insulin, where:
• taking the wrong kind can kill you • not taking it at all will definitely kill you • it's free basically nowhere.
It’s like everything else in the World. There are women who cuddle free of charge but not enough of them to satisfy the demand. So professionals are needed and they charge some price so that supply equals demand at the relevant price.
If you can get paid for something, why wouldn't you opt to do so?
I’ve met several incredible gorgeous women inside and out because of this platform. The memories are priceless. The money part? Who cares I have a job.
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