I understand the need of privacy so not having a picture doesn’t bother me. It makes me less likely to click on the profile but it is not a deal breaker. I do require a pic or video chat prior to meeting. I also have to agree with @GreatHornedOwl. My profile isn’t super detailed because I’m very private when it comes to my personal life. I share that information only on need to know basis. However, there is enough information there to learn something about me and also connect with my pictures.
@Pieces70
is that it’s become accepted to assume that a man with no profile picture(s) is hiding something or hiding from an unknowing spouse, and is therefore a potential red flag. Yet, it’s just as accepted for women
This is your major problem with this site? I mean yes, I have seen this opinion expressed here, including the double standard, and that is silly… but it’s an opinion I’ve seen just a handful of times even after regularly looking at this forum for years. How is this possibly affecting your enjoyment of the site?
@Pieces70 i don’t think that’s necessarily true … now, if when sending a private message to a potential cuddler, and the person refuses to send a pic of themselves when requested, now that’s a different story … yes! Most people are visual / some people will attach a pic of themselves immediately when messaging another person they like to connect with & possibly cuddle (to not waste time because granted ,most people are visual), but I don’t think those assumptions are true.
@Pieces70 I don't assume that when there is no profile pic. I think there are a bunch of reasons guys don't post a pic. I've wondered if maybe several guys have more at stake in general by putting their visage here and forever in cyberspace. No guy wants to go to work and get razzed about being on a cuddle site and I don't blame them. I don't know how much that occurs, but if I were a guy I would avoid it also. I'm fully ready to cuddle a couple of guys whose pic I've never seen, but they would have to send a pic first.