No socks when I cuddle
Socks when I cuddle 🧦 since I don't want to freeze my cuddle buddy with my icy toes 🥶
But once my feet get hot....then no socks 🚫🧦
I have no preference for those I cuddle with ....since it's up to what is most comfy for them 🤗☺️
I wear socks 100% while cuddling and never when not. I won’t let anyone touch my feet & socks seem to help keep their fingers off my toes lol
I’m impressed with how much thought has gone into this. 😀
I’ve never thought even once about whether my feet should be “socked” or “unsocked”.
Closest I ever came I guess was one time I realized my feet were not as fresh as the rest of me, so I washed them in the bathroom before cuddling. Naked toes that time. 😇
Why is (almost) everyone in this thread automatically assuming that cuddling takes place in a bed? 🤔
Honestly, @Krisha I think it’s a masculine culture thing.
I, and most of my friends from all over, have been taught that ONLY the bedroom is safe.
That expressing anything other than anger, determination, or cheering support for competitors/combatants was forbidden, and quickly punished.
But that, with the ONE you love you could express affection and joy and love, at least after you had expressed your desire and devotion.
I learned, of course, that no space is actually safe for those expressions, except a space where you are definitely alone, unobserved, and unrecorded.
But, in my repeated experience, showing anything but the “acceptable” male emotions to anyone else causes problems.
Because the culture is what it is.
I can go either way, but usually I am barefoot when it comes to cuddling. 🫂🦶😆
Beds are larger and more comfortable than a couch. And I think, ironically, beds are better for casual cuddling, since it's easier to have more distance and less contact.
As for my feet, always unshod whenever possible.
Why is (almost) everyone in this thread automatically assuming that cuddling takes place in a bed?
Because if it’s good enough for flowers it’s good enough for me.
Because if it’s good enough for flowers it’s good enough for me
😆😆😆😆
@TheFunCartel That's good! ☺️
I prefer to cuddle without socks unless my feet are cold, but they’re usually removed at some point or another 😂, especially if cuddling under the blankets. 🧦 🚫
I also don’t mind if my cuddle partner wears them or not. It’s completely up to them to decide what makes them feel more confortable.
I have a bin that I keep solo socks in. Any suggestions for what to do with them? I'm not brave enough to just toss 'em 😂
I wear mine and just mix and match.
@Auroradream If nothing else, there's probably a place that recycles and/or repurposes old socks.
For ideas on what you can do yourself, you can fill with rice and make a hot pack, you can put on a puppet show, you can use them as padding for other things, etc.
Some people say that socks don't have to match, but I consider that heresy.
I do prefer my socks on. I'm always a little chilly so the socks help keep me warm. I would not mind taking them off though.
@IronLemon: "Sock Heresy!" 😁
What do you think of differently colored socks that accessorize well, such as a red sock and a green sock purposefully worn to work with an overall outfit?
I sometimes do this with sneakers too.
As for the original post, I'm good with or without socks so long as everyone's feet are clean and no long toenails. I do like to go with no socks right after a pedicure. I always wear socks at parties though; I just make sure they are cute socks.
yes socks
OMG! Rainbow toe socks were totally my thing back in the day!! 🌈 🧦 😎
Socks on for me. I don't know of any cuddler who wants to see someone's feet with toejam and corns. YEESH!!!!!
I wear socks to the session, if the client wants them on then I leave them on. But if no preference I do take them off. I pre moisturize them before every session. So my feet are always clean and super soft/ kept. : ) My preference overall.
I don't because i.get hot easily . I usually don't wear shoes or socks indoors . Besides,.it covers my pretty toesies 😂
I wear socks, I don't really care if my cuddle partner does or not
@IronLemon 💯! If I wear mismatched socks then they feel different on each foot. That’s just…that’s just a no. 😬
@RedFox16 I also rocked the rainbow toe sock back in the day but there were certain ones that were insanely comfy and certain ones that were awful.
@pmvines putting my toes to shame! 🤣
And I can’t remember if I posted or not in this thread. But I’m a yes for socks. I bring fresh ones and change them when I change the rest of my clothes cause I don’t like to bring the outside world into a cuddle. 😁
Usually socks off unless it’s really cold
No socks during cuddles. Panty hose any other time.
@TheFunCartel Sheer or opaque?
I vote fishnet. Why be like everybody else?
@gem7 A man doesn’t tell his secrets…at least not in detail.
If you have nice clean socks on, that's fine. If you plan to wear the same smelly socks that you wore with shoes on? It's a definite NO. ( They have to stay outside the front door with your shoes. 😂)
I definitely prefer barefoot but would never require one way or the other.