What is something that you absolutely love people to do when cuddling?

Backscratch75Backscratch75
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I love cuddling as an escape. I work hard and direct people all day. I find cuddling that great space where someone else leads. Finding that awesome person who is a true big spoon - I love being held tight at times and open to backscratches.
And you?

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  • [Deleted User]Unsmiley (deleted user)

    Back scratches and arms around the shoulders if my head is in their lap is really comforting to me.

  • [Deleted User]WinterSoldierzz (deleted user)

    When they actually pay attention to the anime Iā€™m watching with me so we can weeb out about it later

  • Backscratch75Backscratch75

    And another - did not know this until recently
    Rubbing behind my ear is always my weak spot, melt in your arms and put me right to sleep just doing

  • kuddlekitty11kuddlekitty11

    I like my hair to be played with

  • CozyWolfyCozyWolfy

    hair tussles!!!

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I love the feeling of grooming like the chimpanzees do and having the lice picked out. My scalp thanks you.

  • [Deleted User]CuddlelessinLB (deleted user)

    I enjoy back scratches and having my hair played with.

  • BearBear

    I just found out this week. My back getting attention. Massage,caresses, and such.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life
    edited April 2023

    I appreciate when a cat person (one who likes & understands cats) entertains my cat-like wants.
    šŸ’“šŸˆā€ā¬›

    edited because I reread the thread title post-post

  • [Deleted User]1_teddybear (deleted user)

    @Backscratch75 Isn't it wonderful when someone makes the effort to help us find out how we like to be touched?

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    I'm still working on this, since receiving has been difficult for me since I started cuddling in June of last year. But I had a couch cuddle in January that crystallized something for me...

    I love to be held tight against a man's chest, so I nearly have to fight for breath. It makes me feel so incredible safe, protected, and cared for. The world stopped turning when I was held, this way.

    Now I know what to ask for, and what I need. šŸ„¹

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • cuddlefaerycuddlefaery

    All. The. Things.

    Honestly, it varies slightly from partner to partner, day to day, but generally I love it all. Squeezes, pretzles, scritches, talking, silence, footsie, music, activities, trying new cuddle positions, scents, no scents, etc., etc. I like variety and am eclectic in my tastes in general, so this is no big surprise šŸ˜…

    Recently was talking with a partner about what animal we most resemble/identify with, and I was struggling because I kept changing my mind. I asked his opinion and his response: "oh you're definitely a cat. The way you drape your limbs, and how you stretch and press into a caress, or how you nuzzle into my hand as if asking for pets is all just straight up cat. A black cat, of course."

    He knows I have 3 of them šŸ¤£ though that begs the question - do I have black cats because they are like me, or have I become like my cats since having them? šŸ¤”

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    @quixotic_life are you very catty?
    @cuddlefaery the response about how you act like a cat sounds like me too. lol.

    I love head pets, strokes, and back scratches and often lean and press into those caresses and scratches. I nuzzle the hand that pet me too. Don't be worried if I meow. šŸ˜ŗ People aren't allergic to me thankfully. šŸ˜¹

    During cuddles, I enjoy when they want to watching a good show or anime, gaming, other platonic activities, and back rubs.
    I also enjoy smelling some light good scents from some colognes and body sprays but not those that are too overpowering.

  • [Deleted User]MrAdmirer (deleted user)

    They have me at 'cuddle'

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