Can you identify two or three things that make for a positive worthwhile cuddling experience and on the other hand experiences that make for a bad cuddle.
Good: 1. almost everything
Bad: 1. Creeper 2. User 3. Prejudice
Pros: Netflix, Food, a warm embrace/smooth skin
Cons: bad hygiene, any kind of fear/discomfort, pretentious ignorance
I don't have any negative cuddle experiences, but the thing I most appreciated about the good ones I've had was the open communication. It's nice to not have to guess at anything or try to surreptitiously signal when something is uncomfortable and hope that the other person picks up on it. It's so refreshing to feel free to say if something isn't working or if something is really pleasant, and to know the other person will do the same when they want a change or continuation. Basically, it's nice to find someone safe. Too many people are quick to lash out for imagined slights, misunderstood intentions, or differences in values and allow no opportunity to talk about any of it.
Well my cuddle session was different. We went to a nice park and with a pillow in her lap,I was able to lay down and she just played with my hair. That's all I wanted and asked for. She also massaged my neck and shoulders because she's just awesome like that. She was very concerned about if I was comfy or needed more or less pressure. Shout out to @Noemi_Ny
You are absolutely too sweet for this🧡 It was a great session and overall experience😊 thank you so much💕
@Noemi_Ny no no no. Thank you!!