About me
I'm pretty much just your average dude who's become touch starved due to shyness while growing up turning into social anxiety, and the resulting lack of social skill presenting as awkwardness. I've made great strides overcoming shyness and anxiety, but I'm still pretty awkward.
Even though it's been years since my one and only romantic relationship ended, I'm not entirely sure that I'm ready to look for another. That's why I came here looking for a chance to share touch and attention with people without it having to be tied to romance or attraction.
My favorite active touches to receive are scalp scritches with my head on a lap or feather fingers on my bare back. Even some moderate tickling can be enjoyable as long as it's not to excess and not attack tickles. My lack of long fingernails means I'm no good at giving scritches myself, but I've been told that I'm very good with feather fingers. For the more passive cuddles, I most enjoy being the big spoon when laying down, and long hugs or holding someone sitting on my lap. Aside from my favorites, I've found that I'm pretty comfortable with just about any kind of touch as long as I know the other person is okay with it and there's no fear (on either end) of misinterpretation or ulterior motives.
I'm also open to finding a few friends to do things with besides cuddle. I've always liked hiking, kayaking, caving, bowling, gaming, and a variety of other things that I don't get much opportunity for since doing them alone isn't much fun. Lately I've taken up learning ballroom dancing as another way to share platonic touch with people. I get to dance with my instructor(s) during lessons and other students during the weekly practice parties, but I still lack a practice partner outside of that.
Since cuddlers are scarce in my area and I have plenty else to keep me busy, I don't spend much time on the site any more, but don't let that dissuade you from sending a message if you'd like to get to know me as a potential cuddle buddy -- regardless of how long I've been offline. I'll get an email to let me know if anyone messages me so I can come back and respond within a day or so. I can surely make time for a potential friend.
If you're a pro, I'm okay with friendly messages and with being queried as a potential client. Just say which you're after, and don't send a friend request with no message. Sometimes I'm open to pro cuddles, sometimes not, but I'll respond kindly either way.
And regardless of who you are, please be direct. I've spent my life trying to learn to read between the lines, but I'm still pretty terrible at it (and at being subtle, myself). Just say what you mean or what you're after. It's totally okay with me and actually very much appreciated, even if it seems quite brusque. Direct openness is the easiest way through my awkwardness and the easiest thing for me to respond to.
Facts
| Join Date |
October 2016 |
| Orientation |
Straight |
| Status |
Single |
| Cuddles |
Women |
| Can be |
Guest, Public |
| Preferred Days |
Sun, Mon, Tue, Fri, Sat |
| Preferred Times |
Morning, Afternoon, Evening |
| Preferred Age |
25 - 50 |
| Location: |
Fayetteville, AR |
| Height |
5' 10" |
| Body Type |
Average |
| Car Owner |
Yes |
| Pets |
2 outdoor cats |
| Drinks |
No |
| Smokes |
No |
| Ethnicity |
White |
| Religion |
Christianity |
| Job |
Cabinet shop |
| Children |
Has no children |
No friends to show yet :(
No Cuddle Karma just yet. You can write about your cuddle experience with Mailleweaver once you have exchanged a few messages.