In 2016 my girlfriend decided that she didn't want a relationship and left me so she can be alone. Even six years later my heart still belongs to her, though, so I'm just here for a little human contact without complications while I wait for her. I'm looking for an infrequent platonic cuddle buddy (preferably multiple cuddle buddies) to normalize touch without romance complicating it. Simple, friendly cuddlers seem to be very scarce.
I'm also open to finding a few friends to do things with besides cuddle. I've always liked hiking, kayaking, caving, bowling, gaming, and a variety of other things that I don't get much opportunity for with how few friends I have anymore. I lost contact with most of the people I'd started becoming friends with when I went through a depression, and now I spend most of my time at home cleaning and repairing things now that I'm done taking care of my Dad (who passed in October). Even having someone to talk to about hobbies, interests, work, or life in general would be nice.
Since cuddlers are scarce in my area and I have plenty else to keep me busy, I don't spend much time on the site any more, but don't let that dissuade you from sending a message if you'd like to get to know me as a potential cuddle buddy -- regardless of how long I've been offline. I'll get an email to let me know if anyone messages me so I can come back and respond within a day or so. I can surely make time for a potential friend.
If you're a pro, I'm okay with friendly messages and with being queried as a potential client. Just say which you're after, and don't send a friend request with no message. Sometimes I'm open to pro cuddles, sometimes not, but I'll respond kindly either way.
And regardless of who you are, be direct. I've spent my life trying to learn to read between the lines, but I'm still pretty terrible at it (and at being subtle, myself). Just say what you mean or what you're after. It's totally okay and much appreciated, even if it seems quite brusque.
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||2 outdoor cats
||Cabinet shop CNC programmer and tech
No friends to show yet :(
No Cuddle Karma just yet. You can write about your cuddle experience with Mailleweaver once you have exchanged a few messages.