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35 - Man - Fayetteville, Arkansas, US
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In 2016 my girlfriend decided that she didn't want a relationship and left me so she can be alone. My heart still belongs to her, though, so I'm just here for a little human contact without complications while I wait for her. Simple, friendly cuddlers seem to be very scarce.
After she left me I realized that I'd become unhealthily dependent on her. Since she was the only source of physical contact that I'd ever had, even simple, platonic contact like sitting close or holding hands gave me an extreme high -- not to mention the kissing and flirting that's usual between a couple. Riding that high for years eventually sent me into depression. To help me avoid that happening again, I'm looking for an infrequent platonic cuddle buddy (preferably multiple cuddle buddies) to normalize touch without the romance magnifying it.
I'd also like to make a few friends to do things with besides cuddle. I've always liked hiking, kayaking, caving, bowling, gaming, and a variety of other things that I don't get much opportunity for with how few friends I have anymore. I lost contact with most of the people I'd started becoming friends with when I went through my depression. Even having someone to talk to about hobbies, interests, work, or life in general would be nice.
Since cuddlers are scarce in my area and I have plenty else to do in life, I don't spend much time on the site any more, but don't let that dissuade you from sending a message if you'd like to get to know me as a potential cuddle buddy -- regardless of how long I've been offline. I'll get an email to let me know if anyone messages me so I can come back and respond within a day or so. I can easily make time for a potential friend.
The one thing I would dissuade you from is sending a friend request out of the blue. As an introvert, I don't like collecting fake friends. Please make the effort to send an actual message instead; we can become friends as we get to know each other. Empty friend requests are hurtful to me, but friendly messages are uplifting. I'm always open to making a real friend.
If you're a pro, I'm okay with friendly messages and with being queried as a potential client. Just say which you're after. Sometimes I'm open to pro cuddles, sometimes not, but I'll respond either way.
And regardless of who you are, be direct. I've spent my life trying to learn to read between the lines, but I'm still pretty terrible at it (and at being subtle, myself). Just say what you mean or what you're after. It's totally okay and much appreciated, even if it seems quite brusque.
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