is it typical some cuddlers want to meet at a hotel seems like a bad thing makes me beleive you might get arrested for this
1) you won't get arrested if you're not doing anything illegal. Platonic cuddling is not illegal.
2) I recommend you read all the stickied topics in the forums, especially the FAQ.
3) it'd be a good idea to read the terms of service / cuddler contract so you're aware of what you're agreeing to by using this site.