Is it against the rules for pros to drink alcohol during sessions or get high where it’s legal?
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@lonelytauros I vote no to most of those. I won't disclose which ones though 😂
@Katota Dead skunk is exactly how I would describe the smell of weed!! Walking through an area where someone’s been smoking it, I wonder if they got a bad batch or maybe it’s a more intense variety? I don’t know. But it never used to smell like that so what’s the deal?? Back in the day, it had a very different distinct odor, but it’s been too long and I don’t know how to describe it. I can’t stand smoke of any kind so it’s not for me! Suffocating is another good description!
@BashfulLoner Yes, exactly what I mean about the smell!
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haha Legit, I've never understood how people are so generous with that stuff, gotta be expensive!
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@Morpheus I sure as hell think it should be, but I've found nothing to indicate that Pro's drinking or drugging during their sessions is against the rules. I've met multiple men who have told me they had Pro's smoking pot before and during their sessions.
@lonelytauros You forgot one. 🤭
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@SunsetSnuggles I had a session with a pro a year or two ago and she was high as a kite. Worst session ever. Her place smelled so bad of cigarettes and weed. She ended up getting banned not long after. I have no idea why. It was so bad that I really thought about leaving early not even thinking about any kind of refund.
I should add, I’m not talking badly about pros. That was my only actual bad session. The rest have been amazing.
@BashfulLoner Still nah, I appreciate the info though. Lol! Garlic, huh?😄 Still a NAH, now if there's weed smelling elike peach cobbler...Maybe.😊
LOL! But it's gotta smell EXACTLY LIKE PEACH COBBLER! EXACTLY!😆
@Katota
Dead skunk is exactly how I would describe the smell of weed
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Why does the poor skunk have to be dead ☹️
@Morpheus I believe if it is legal in the area then it may not break the rules. (Side note: with federal and international laws such as the site's domain being involved though, it may fall on the stricter of terms.)
However, a bad session is a bad session and can and should be reported as such, not to mention leaving accurate karma so that future potential partners/clients/pros are fully aware.
I come across profiles all the time that mention cuddling while drinking or smoking, and it's so anathema to most cuddle training programs and consent practices that it's hard for me to not immediately report Not to mention those profiles tend to come across more as dating profiles than platonic.
I prefer to treat cuddling like ecstatic dance, where the flow of the activity is the high and you don't want any mind-altering substances impacting the experience.
@Morpheus Lol!😄 Ask the ones who reek of it...They can give a better answer then I.👍
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@cuddlefaery Well put, thank you! I prefer cuddle high over skunk weed high any day.😁
@lonelytauros You forgot: Mind your manners
@cuddlefaery What you wrote about cuddling being the high and who needs anything else 💯
I think it is a very bad idea for a whole host of reasons.
I have not seen multiple cuddlers , I don’t have that much free time.. but, one person I met asked if he could smoke cigarettes/marijuana and have a drink or two.. He said he knows a lot of enthusiasts that offered him alcohol and let him smoke during their time together.. to each their own.. I don’t drink or smoke anything.. I don’t want to be around that stinky smell.. I told him he could do that on his own time with one of his enthusiast friends and that I do not wish to cuddle with smokers/drinkers.. he was very respectful and kind.. I think good communication is very important.. I let cuddlers know from the beginning ( even in my profile) that I am a non drinker/non smoker .. I like to cuddle with non stinky people.! 😃
@Morpheus I cuddled with someone who told me one of the pros he cuddled with once was absolutely trashed and it was super annoying. He was already annoyed with her because she was like 4 hours late and brought a friend.
one of the pros... was absolutely trashed... 4 hours late and brought a friend.
Sounds like she really put the "pro" in procrastinate.
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I hesitate to post this cause I swear it’s gonna get misconstrued lol but once a pro came over, saw a bottle of tequila at my house and asked for a shot. I think we did a few shots. She said she could handle her liquor but she definitely felt it more than I did. I booked a 3 hour session and right at 2 hours, she got up, got dressed, put her shoes on and went in my living room and sat in the couch like it’s time to go. I had picked her up that day and brought her to my place so I was like okay we can go home now. I wasn’t very intoxicated so I was fine to drive her home. She ended up falling asleep in my car on the way so I woke her up when we got to her place. Oddly I wasn’t annoyed at all that she was mistakingly shorting me an hour because I actually had a great time. When I got home I realized that she had left her ear rings at my place so I text her the next day to let her know. I guess she realized she cut the session short by an hour so she said we could go to the park by her house and cuddle for an hour. I drove to her place and took her the ear rings she left and we finished off our session.
So why am I telling that story. Even though nothing bad happened, I don’t think I would drink with a pro again. All kinda things can happen so it’s probably best just not doing it.
@Morpheus Thank you for being upstanding when she was in a compromised position, especially when she fell asleep. So, so incredibly reckless of that Pro. I'm glad she gave you the final hour.
@Morpheus ever since the pandemic the number of people becoming pros that are struggling with various issues has increased. The getting drunk might be someone with a low tolerance for liquor. But a few months ago I had a pro that came to my hotel, gave me a two hour session that was ok but nothing special and then left. An hour after she left I went downstairs to get some water and she was sitting in the lobby playing on her phone. I assumed she was waiting for an Uber. But the next morning I go down for breakfast and she has a plate stacked high with a lot of food. I think she was semi-homeless or homeless. She had said she had three kids and she lived with her parents. She saw me and said she was a night owl and didn’t feel like going home, but I don’t think that was the case as she had also asked if she could use my bathroom to freshen up after the session and the shower turned on—she took a shower. Also not a big deal but taken as a whole with not going home, getting an inordinate amount of food, and taking a shower leads me to think she was struggling.
@BoomerSpooner that’s a fascinating story. How long did she wait in the hotel?
I had a pro many years ago who I would pay for an hour and she would stay all day. I always just assumed she was comfortable. I found out later she was a victim of domestic abuse and just didn’t want to go home.
My take: I partake of weed often medically and recreationally. My profile says I'm 420 friendly. However, during a cuddle session, I'm not going to light up and affect how someone smells. I've shared pot with cuddle enthusiasts (after getting to know them) who are likewise inclined. However I would not spend a bunch of time on the "cuddle clock" smoking pot. Regarding alcohol... I definitely don't make it a practice of having drinks with a cuddle enthusiast. First of all, one glass is all I typically have, and besides, if someone was actually trying to be/get me drunk during a cuddle session, it would be off- putting.
@morpheus I don’t know because I was out the door early for work appointments. She was gone when I got back but that was hours later.
@Morpheus Drinking/smoking (where legal) before cuddling with a pro is not against the rules of the site, though doing either in excess and being unable to give consent could get someone reported, and if they did something sexual, that would of course be against the rules.
I don't smoke anything, I don't want my cuddle partner to smoke anything.