Now I have read it all

HappyHikes

I am fully aware that the rules are no referencing specific profiles in the forums ... and I fully accept that ... so I will not. I was looking at a profile of a young woman in the New York area ... and her profile reads:

Funny and chatty would def be what my bestfriend would describe me but I can also be shy. I love to cuddle to release stress. I love a M/s dynamic to like help you destress and become the the best version of yourself day to day.

I thought M/S dynamic? Why what could that be?The answer ... Mommy/Son dynamic. The different veils of what are most likely offers of non-platonic actions are thin indeed. Stay safe everyone!

Bear

Was it reported ?

biancalovecraft

It might be crudely stated but it's not really strange unless there's diapers involved.

pmvines

Or adult breastfeeding. It's a thing

4cuddles

Huh, guess one be learning daily out here on this site.
Erm, yes was the profile reported?

starrynitecuds

Yes, she is an enthusiast and was reported, but nothing was done. (Probably my fault on that though on how I reported.) Icky that she was on the front page here, too.
@CharlieBear , @JoyfulHeart @Shake @cheeseboy @netrunner @cudbud64
EDITED: Banned camp!

CharlieBear

@MattMiles
That is what the report feature is for. Posting to the forums is not helpful. If anything, calling it out drives more people to that page giving them time to swap contact info before the ban comes. Fortunately someone else notified me of this and she has since been banned.

TxTom

Now I have read it all

On this site, that's a mistaken assumption.

Give it a few minutes.

CuddleDuncan

Anything fetish related is prohibited here.

If in doubt, Report. Always. Let the mods decide. They are few in number and very busy - much happens behind the scenes - so the more specific the Report the better. A typical response time is perhaps 12 hours and it can easily be longer, just because nobody has got to that Report yet.

Katota

That is what the report feature is for. Posting to the forums is not helpful. If anything, calling it out drives more people to that page giving them time to swap contact info before the ban comes

👍👍👍👍

@CharlieBear This is true! Thanks for banhammering this individual😁👍, there are plenty other sites to "get your kink on". Cuddle Comfort isn't one of them.😌

netrunner

@MattMiles
If you haven't already done so, please report it as that is an immediate ban

MarigoldBloom

I would have guessed M/s meant Master/submissive (or slave!). Gee, I’m learning so much about new-to-me relationship options. Don’t want to know any more than that, though.

MarigoldBloom

@CharlieBear Thanks for banning him. 🤗

BrianOcean

@MarigoldBloom

Don’t want to know any more than that, though.

Well said- Although I would like to go back just a few minutes when I did'nt know that.

@MarigoldBloom when I saw that profile I thought the same thing. I still think that.

HappyHikes

@CharlieBear ... understood. Sorry about that.

Sooson

@MarigoldBloom It was a woman. And Mommy was part of her name, so OPs interpretation is probably the correct one.

supadupa

It wouldn’t have registered with me what M/S stood for what have assumed it was just a typo or something. Guess only people in those circles know what it means? My criteria is if they seem cool and have a nice smile and willing to meet with me

biancalovecraft

@supadupae me neither and I feel like many of my cuddle sessions are very maternal. I guess either I'm extremely naive or everything's a fetish and everyone has their minds in the gutter 😅

supadupa

That’s good for you, you don’t give off that vibe to me but that’s because we are peers, age wise. Maternal for me at this point would be 60’s lol and my parents weren’t affectionate at all growing up so even a hug from mom or grandma would be weird or any family member lol

TheFunCartel

everyone has their minds in the gutter 😅

Some of us are looking at the stars.

starrynitecuds

@biancalovecraft She was blatantly offering a fetish. Her name, her words, her photos. And it was confirmed in her DMs. Knowledge is power, we're not people with our "minds in the gutter." We're helping protect others, like you.
@supadupa no, you don't have to be "in those circles" to know. It's much less of a secret than platonic cuddling.
Now you both know and aren't naive. WIN!

TheFunCartel

Not a fetish if you get a trust fund out of it. Then it’s just sensible planning by the mom.

biancalovecraft

@FunCartel 😂
if anyone offers to mommy me I'm taking it. We can work out the details later 🤣

Sooson

Not a fetish if you get a trust fund out of it. Then it’s just sensible planning by the mom

ok so now we're talking Findom?

Mare_Bear

Any of the above belongs on Fetlife, not here. Please report

CuddleDuncan

Oh, and @MattMiles (the OP) I regret to inform you that you haven't "read it all". In fact you're only about half way to where I've got to. And I'm ..... how can I put this .... still learning. 🙄

SunsetSnuggles

I'm with @MarigoldBloom, on automatically assuming Master/slave. Mommy/son can fit right into that dynamic...just in this case, the woman is the Mistress.

It's exceedingly common, with genders flipped. Wanna-be Daddy Doms are everywhere, and @Morpheus, I'll say it again...any chick who starts calling you Daddy, it ain't no sweet nickname. 😉

~ Sunset Snuggles

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