I’m super more to this and nervous. Any tips?
Communicate, ask questions, don't get in to anything that your not ready for. Nervousness is good it keeps you aware but you can get over it. Take your time and screen you cuddles. Make sure you have an adequate understanding of what they expect and make sure you under what to expect. Familiarize yourself with the terms of service and stick to them. Don't except anything your not ok with. And again ask questions of anyone you speak to, build report. You'll be fine.
Decide on your boundaries, define them clearly for yourself and anyone who messages you. Clear communication is so important. Be cautious about your safety, check karma, meet in person first if that feels better, let friends/loved ones know where you are. Be prepared for the possibility of people asking for non-platonic things or pushing boundaries (report them) and don't get discouraged!
I have had some weird weeks, or slow weeks where I don't hear from anyone, but I have also met wonderful people and had an amazing time overall. Welcome!! And feel free to message me directly if you have questions 😊
Don’t wear scuba gear on a cuddle! It’s way awkward.
Trust no one except your gut and me.
I used to be a cuddler years ago and just now getting back into it, it can definitely seem intimidating at first but you do get used to it. At first for me it carried the feeling similar to when you walk out of a store empty handed, you feel like you're doing something wrong even though you're not lol Also, meeting new people can be scary, one thing I always make sure I do is to have someone I text the meeting location to as well as scheduled session length. Doing this not only supplies a feeling of comfort but truly gives a higher level of security simply because life is life and it's better to be prepared!
All of the safety measures mentioned above are important. As for nervousness, I like to start out with a standing “heart hug” for a minute or more. That usually results in a release of oxytocin and calms the nerves.
https://www.thejuntoinstitute.com/the-right-way-to-give-a-heart-to-heart-hug/
Yes. It's normal to be nervous. There is a LOT more to this than meets the eye: take your time and do your homework.
Read the sticky topics at the top of the Professional Cuddling board. You may also find these threads helpful:
New Professionals! Here Is Everything You Need To Know
New Professionals - 12 Top Tips to get More Enquiries
Training Courses for Cuddle Professionals