Can Men be a cuddler?

I recently signed up for this website to try to make extra cash. While scrolling through the website I only see women cuddlers. It seems like I won't be getting many requests. If anyone knows if I'm in the wrong place, can you let me know.

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  • It has been said a lot on here, but it’s very difficult for men to make money on here as pros, especially if they’re not willing to cuddle other men.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    Just not a demand for male pros.

  • It's less likely but not impossible. Take a look at what you risk and then decide if it's worth an attempt.

  • @gem7 Not true and you should know this! The Rockies are desperate for some pros.

  • [Deleted User]gem7 (deleted user)

    @TheFunCartel Ooh, don't I know it. They passed below desperation prior to the All Star break. Since I am from the Bay Area I also follow the A's. Gives you an idea of how I enjoy pain and suffering.

  • Read the stickies on the Professional Cuddling board.

  • It's very easy for a woman to find a man that will cuddle with her for free.

    It's much more difficult for a man to find a woman that will cuddle for free.

    This is why you see mostly only female pros.

  • edited August 2025

    You can but don't expect to earn a whole lot

  • It’s not 100% impossible but. . Good luck. You would most likely have to be open to cuddling everyone.

  • From what I’ve heard it’s possible. But as others have said it’s more probable if you’re willing to cuddle with everyone.

    You might still get female clients.
    But as a female enthusiast I am inundated with messages daily. Now it takes a lot of effort to weed through the rubbish and find the gems. So it’s possible there are female identifying folks who would rather just pay a professional.

    But then again just because someone is a professional doesn’t mean they’re a quality cuddle. So show why you are worth someone paying for.

  • edited August 2025

    ok so let's settle this once and for all:
    158 male pros who cuddle women were active in the past 30 days.
    The average age of a professional male cuddler is 36.0 years.
    The average hourly rate for a professional male cuddler is $82.25.
    About 5% of these professional male cuddlers offer virtual cuddles.





  • edited August 2025

    If the only reason you signed up is to make extra cash, to look as a person as a possible ATM, I don’t think you’ll get to many clients or work at it very long. Not unless you have awesome nurturing skills. That is the type of cuddler I learned to not connect with. Good luck.

  • @Sooson I love that! Thank you!

  • @TxTom I love that more! Thank you lol.

  • @TxTom that adds nuance that I had never considered before.

  • edited August 2025

    @MTex Thank you, my pleasure. I mean not really lol, once you try using GPT for a little more than just a Google Search shortcut tool, you realize it has a long way to go and sometimes does not act like AI at all. it even has a mild case of Alzheimer's. but here we are. it was a good experience.

  • edited August 2025

    @sosoon where did you get those numbers? Chat gpt doesn’t scrape in real time. It can hallucinate due to its programming favoring giving an agreeable answer though.
    @TxTom 😂😂😂😂

  • @stormydaycuddle No it doesn't. I used ChatGPT to write a scraping code. The code runs and scrapes and generates an Excel. You then go back to GPT and use it to Query the Excel.

    programming favoring giving an agreeable answer

    Yes, I noticed that!

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    If you're thinking of being a male pro as a profitable side job, you'd be better off driving for DoorDash.

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