wondering how common it is for trans cuddles to be successful on this site. is anyone interested in trans women here or curious??
The subject was discussed recently. You may find this thread of interest:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/23820/trans-woman-cuddlers/p1
As a professional, I've had mixed results finding clients through the site. Before it was added to my bio that I'm trans, I had multiple cancelations. I was not what the clients "expected". Now that it's in my bio I get fewer client requests, but those who message now typically follow through.
I've never cuddled a trans person, or interacted with one since highscool, but I'm definitely down.
As long as the vibes are right, all is welcome in my book!!
To me they are women, so I would. It depends more on the personal connection and vibes. Right now I would not hire a pro cuddler. I’ve been looking for a cuddle buddy locally. I’ve reached out to a few trans & afam women for cuddling. Only a transwoman replied and followed thru. Hope this helps. @bassbrat
It depends on how you define "successful". There's definitely the risk of rejections or being fetishized, but then there will be people like me who actually feel safer in general with other LGBTQIA+ folks 🤷🏻♀️ yrmv
If your goal is to make a lot of money as a pro, then we have to be honest that it's going to take some extra work to advertise to the right people and vet them all for safety. But if your goal is just to connect with other open-minded humans, then you'll likely have more success.
Regardless of whether acting as pro or enthusiast - vet, vet, and vet some more. Ask pointed, open-ended questions about their views and experiences with trans people. Don't let them dodge with vague or yes/no answers. Get on a video call to make sure they're who they say they are. Meet in public before going anywhere private with them, and never share a car. If gut sends out any red flags, trust it. Nothing is worth your safety, and it's a very unsafe world right now for our trans & nb loved ones.
I only cuddle with other queer people bc it's exhausting dealing with non queer people bc they get things so wrong like the above comment from bear. My two meet ups with fellow trans people have both gone great
I have had a few cuddle sessions with the same trans woman. Great time. No issues for me whatsoever
You’ll definitely have to find people who are open-minded. It’s unfortunate that not everyone is. I would caution to do some extra vetting if someone seems overly eager to cuddle based upon you being trans. Fetish isn’t something condoned, & safety first always for all.
Great advice
I have no issue cuddling with women, menmor trans. ALL is welcomed @bassbrat
I had a great cuddle session with a trans pro a few months ago. Definitely had some great conversation and cuddles. Just a shame they aren't local. I feel like I've had a lot of good sessions with people who aren't local and leaves me wishing they all were lol. Oh if only I could teleport instantly anywhere I wanted.
I have cuddled with men, women, couples, and groups. I welcome the opportunity to cuddle with a trans girl. Cuddling with a great and special person is the same no matter what gender or orientation. Everyone needs that special feeling that comes from a great cuddle session. What makes a cuddling great is based on internal beauty and really has little to do with everything else. You will be a better person and have much better cuddle sessions when you stop focusing on just external looks or gender. Plus, every trans girl I have known or been friends with has been wonderful, caring, and kind.
Yes - cuddled with someone who was openly trans and I have been to a cuddle workshop and cuddle party. I know some of the folks there identified as trans too.
@CSnMUS87 I know, right? All the best people on this site always seem to be soooo freakin far away 😩
@KindHeart_NY grest minds think alike!! I fully agree with you 💯.