Would some kind soul(s) give me feedback on my profile? If you want feedback on yours just say so and I’ll happily reciprocate. Thanks!
@CuddlesInJax I think it's sounds good but I've probably not been here long enough to say what should and should not be said on here lol I think it sounds nice and personable.
Maybe others will have better feedback.
Best of luck and happy cuddling!
Thanks @AuraOfComfort
The first thing I noticed was you didn't mention your cat yet you choose that picture as your main profile pic. If that is not your cat, it gives off I'm trying to hard to show I respect boundaries. If that is your cat, I hope it scratches you for not even acknowledging it. Maybe try changing the main pic to one with your dog since you are mostly talking about him in your bio.
That is my honest opinion.
Thanks @BellaXochilt That is my cat in the picture but he unfortunately passed away. He had eighteen good long years before crossing the rainbow bridge though! I’ll remove the pic though to not send the wrong message.
No, do not remove the picture. It would help if you briefly mention him/her.
I used to have my profile pic cuddling my cat Sky even doh I no longer have her. I had to take it off due to mods request as they wanted a more clear picture of my face.
@BellaXochilt
I modified the first paragraph: “I moved to Jacksonville with my dog Layla a year ago. Layla and I lead a quiet and happy life together. (It used to be Layla, Midnight, and me. Sadly, Midnight passed away last year, but you can see him in my last picture.)”
I’m sorry to hear about Sky. 💔 I was a mess when Midnight passed away and I can’t even imagine what I’ll be like when it’s Layla’s turn…
Thank you love. R.I.P Midnight 🐈 My condolences.
Perfect just adjust the end of the sentence. Maybe: "but his essence never left me 🐈." Or something like that. I don't have the best grammar to help you in that department.
Also, try setting yourself apart from the rest by mentioning what you can provide during a cuddle session. e.g. "while cuddling with me you will have my undivided attention..." Think about how you can help her feel safe, seen, cared for and protected.
You’re giving me some gold here. I really appreciate you taking the time to fine tune this 🙂
I made some changes to the last paragraph: “I’m here because I miss live human connection. I work remotely so I don’t get a lot of it these days. I like to think that I’m a good cuddler because I always respect boundaries and my cuddlee (is that a word?) has my undivided attention. I’m more than happy to cuddle in public for safety and comfort.”
And I added that Midnight is gone but not forgotten.
I really want to help you fix it but I'm going out. Hopefully someone steps in and helps or it stays To be Continued...
Best of luck
Thanks so much! You’ve been a great help.
You have a 10/10 profile!
Honestly 7/10 of the profiles that reach out to me have no profile photo, no bio, or a bio under 15 words, and nothing clear to go off of at all. I think yours is great immediately feels thought-out and intentional which already puts you ahead of 80% of profiles honestly.
Layla is super cute.
I think it would help to be more specific in the hobbies you've dabbled in.
To me cuddling has two components.
Cuddling environment and conversation.
If you want to silently cuddle, you can say that or sprinkle that in. But mention things that could serve as conversation pieces.
And yes, what you're looking for in cuddling.
If you plan on hosting, it wouldn't be a bad idea to also talk about your place or what you do to create a comfortable environment.
Thanks @SleepySheep1 to be fair I had a lot of help from @BellaXochilt with it. I’m right there with you on the empty profiles - I’ve personally stopped reaching out to people who haven’t taken five minutes to put something in their bio.
@Huggycatbear Layla says thank you for the compliment. And I say thank you for the advise. I modified two sections, let me know what you think!
“I enjoy learning about random things and I have a few languages under my belt. (Parlez vous francais?) I also like to dabble in hobbies, but I have the bad habit of stopping them after a while, even after I’ve gone far with them. For example, I figure skated for nine years (complete with jumps and spins!) At one point I learned the guitar and joined a rock band for a week. (It never panned out because we couldn’t find a drummer.) And during Covid, like most people I took up painting. Maybe you can tell me about your cool hobbies and entice me to add another one to my list!
I’m here because I miss live human connection. I work remotely so I don’t get a lot of it these days. I like to think that I’m a good cuddler because I always respect boundaries and my cuddlee (is that a word?) has my undivided attention. I’m more than happy to cuddle in public to start with, and as we develop some trust with time I’m happy to host or be a guest. I have a very comfortable new house (built in 2024) that is very cozy and kept clean if I need to host.”
Super solid! Now just gotta get your karma up and you’ll be golden.
@CuddlesInJax Chef's kiss 👌
Now I wish you many cuddle adventures
Hey, your profile pic could be more of a close up shot? It’s more eye catching
Thank you kindly @Huggycatbear you as well 🙏
@disneysamurai that’s my next step!
@coolrunnings12 Agreed! I didn’t have anyone to take my picture, hence the potato quality of my pics. (I ask passersby to take them for me.) I bought a tripod so I can get one or two portrait shots of me. I should have a few better pics in a day or two.