You are all adults. Do what you like within the context of what makes you feel comfy . Everything about platonic intimacy revolves around consent .
But like @Rezz said. If figuring out how to work around a bra strap is that much of a struggle my guy, perhaps think of doing something other than a massage.
@GentleMan1111 LOL. Super funny.
I will take all the platonic amateur massage I can get. I think a hand massage can be a good ice breaker. A cuddle without massage is also good. As long as it's platonic and doesn't seem like a sneaky way to head to not platonic, I'm probably all in.
Maybe I was serious. Maybe the fantasy of healthy physical contact is better than the reality. Sometimes it's funner to just live online and talk about how nifty keeno kewl something is rather than go out into the world and actually engage in it.
Why not both?
I LOVE to recieve platonic massage during a session. Makes me feel so relaxed.
@GentleMan1111 I agree. And nowadays armchair traveling (reading about travel and looking at pics) and discussing other people's travel with them is more satisfying than taking the trip.
Man, it's a hard thing for me to not go off-topic, but I already typed the first paragraph before I noticed so I'm gonna leave it.
Does not remembering the actual traveling part count as armchair traveling? Cause I'm terrified of flying so when I flew out to Idaho to visit an ex that one time I had switched on the plane and can't even remember the flight. All I remember is the air port, some what being on the plane with my face in a pillow while my ex sitting next to me was trying to keep me calm and I think a flight attendant walked by asking if I was OK but the next thing I know I'm back in the air port except we're in a different air port after the plane has landed. She informed me that Micheal had fronted for pretty much the entire flight.
I'm not sure if that would still work anymore since Micheal fused with another alter last year and I don't fully know yet how much of the old Micheal still exists in this new Mike. All I do know about him is he's been a lot more social than the two differently anti-social alters that formed him... which is a little odd but good.