🥄 The Great Cuddle Debate:

CuddleMeMer

Alright, cuddle enthusiasts, I have a very serious question that deserves a completely unserious debate. 😂

What's the ultimate cuddling position?

🥄 Big spoon — Protector of the peace.

💕 Little spoon — Professional recipient of affection.

🥰 Face-to-face — For those who enjoy a little closeness and the occasional awkward eye contact.

🐻 Human weighted blanket — Personal space? Never heard of her.

💆 Hair playing — Because apparently the quickest way to turn a grown adult into a sleepy house cat is a good scalp massage.

Now for the real controversy…

If your cuddle partner falls asleep and starts snoring like a lawnmower fighting for its life, are you still enjoying the moment, or are you mentally planning your escape? 🤣

Whether you're a professional cuddler, a cuddle enthusiast, or just someone who appreciates a good hug, I want to hear your opinions!

No wrong answers here… although I'm absolutely judging anyone who says cuddling with cold feet is acceptable. 😂💕

So, what's your pick? And what's one cuddling habit you secretly love or absolutely cannot stand? 👀

❌️ Little spoon.
✅️ Everything else.

@CuddleMeMer Okay, FIRST OF ALL. 😂😂😂 “Snoring like a lawnmower fighting for its life” absolutely had me dying. 😭

This is the kind of deeply important scientific research I come to the forums for. Thank you for your service. 🫡💜

I'm going to be controversial and say I don't think there's one ultimate cuddle position! I'm a big believer in switching things up because sometimes you want to be the little spoon, sometimes you want to be the human weighted blanket, and sometimes you just want someone playing with your hair until your brain finally decides to shut up. 😂

Although I will say, there's something especially sweet about someone getting comfortable enough to actually fall asleep while cuddling. 🥹 That's a pretty wonderful compliment when you think about it!

Now, the snoring situation is another matter entirely. 😂 I'm happy you're comfortable, sir, but if the furniture starts vibrating, we may need to renegotiate our arrangement.

And COLD FEET?! Absolutely not. Those are weapons, and I did not consent to combat. 😭

Seriously though, thank you for bringing some fun conversation to the forums! I love seeing people jump in with their personalities and give everyone something lighthearted to participate in. Please keep it coming! 🥰💜

Now I need to know whether anyone else has strong opinions about being the big spoon versus the little spoon, because apparently that's already controversial. 👀😂

@CuddleMeMer Before I forget - some unsolicited advice: you can add a poll to your post with the question/answers you posed so we can snoop everyone's answers. 😇

Both spoons are great.

I fortunately havent had someone fall asleep on me yet, but they came close because the sessions were just very relaxing. That thought definitely crossed my mind yesterday for a session...like what if they fall asleep? I dont want to wake them because they seem so peaceful but also it would be rude not to at least say goodbye, right? Lol. Those were thoughts in my head today.

But it was a brief slumber and it didnt happen. For first time clients I do try to ensure I dont fall asleep for obvious reasons but once trust and rapport is built I can see this happening to some.

In regards to my preferred cuddle positions? I am pretty versatile. But I think we often start with the face to face with the slight awkward face positions 😅 but legs are intertwined and bodies are close.

Given that I am 5'9 i am used to being the bigger spoon in regular cuddling sessions from past relationships or even being the little spoon. I think I prefer the bigger spoon if it is with a new client. And if it's with a trusted person then the little spoon.

And since I dont like the "pancake" belly to belly position, the modified version i favor is the leg bent and draped over their body and close proximity and my head on their chest while doing firm pressure squeezes on their arms, back or neck. And also I have yet to meet anyone who doesnt like head scratches or massages...i love receiving them lmao but I dont expect it ofc.

Also my feet get cold easily so I am always that one person cuddling with socks on. Unless it's in the middle of heat wave which we just finished having one...then theyre off.

I believe I had a pro cuddler drifting off once. I'd been massaging her back and shoulders and I kept going lighter and lighter. Finally I got up and got me some tea and did some other necessities. When I went back to the bedroom she was in the same exact position. I thought it was rather sweet/cute. Didn't phase me. I sort of took it as a compliment.

I think I have nodded off with a few people but not on cc . I was terribly embarrassed lol.