About me
Feel free to start with Booking Instructions & About Me, or skip ahead to Booking Minimum by Location, Service Areas & General Availability for the quick details.
BOOKING INSTRUCTIONS
• Please allow up to 72 hours for a response. I try to get to everyone as quickly as I can.
• For quicker service and fewer messages back and forth, please follow the booking instructions below.
• If you would like to start a free virtual 30 min consultation to see which appointment session is right for you, we can do that. This can take place through texting, phone, video. This is for those who will be meeting with me in person (excluding the virtual appointment experience).
• Send your preferred day/time range, ZIP code, and whether we’re meeting at a public location, hotel or residence.
• At this time, I do not host. Clients will need to arrange the meeting location.
• Include any preferences, sensitivities, boundaries, accommodations, preferred type of touch or cuddle positions.
• We can discuss these through CC messaging, once we exchange information, through a virtual meet and greet, by adding 30 minutes before our appointment, or right before/during the session. I’m flexible.
• I’ll typically wear a shirt or crop top with pajama shorts for cuddle sessions. Please don’t request specific outfits unless it’s related to a sensory need or accommodation. I also prefer that you keep your shirt on during our session.
• Once secured, we can exchange information and complete verification.
• Video meet and greets are through Telegram’s secured chat for additional privacy and to help prevent screenshots or recordings on either end.
ABOUT ME
• My goal is to create a safe space for you to take up space, show up as your authentic self, and feel seen and heard.
• I love meeting new people and seeing who I naturally connect with. I’ve been told I’m good at making people feel at ease and that spending time with me feels natural.
• I recognize how important physical touch and comfortable human connection can be. I’m affectionate and adaptable, and I cuddle based on what feels comfortable for both of us.
• Sessions can include cuddling, conversation, watching something, music, quiet companionship or simply relaxing together. Comfort, communication, consent and boundaries always come first.
• Open to cuddling men, women, nonbinary people, etc.
• Curious, open minded, down to earth AuDHD introvert/ambivert. I’m empathetic, emotionally intelligent, nonjudgmental and a little weird.
• Neurodiversity affirming, trauma informed, chronic health/disability friendly and body positive.
• Whether you’re new or experienced, outgoing or socially awkward, neurodivergent or neurotypical, touch deprived, looking to unwind or simply wanting connection and companionship, you’re welcome here.
• I enjoy meaningful conversations just as much as comfortable silence, parallel play and body doubling.
• Interests: psychology, neuroscience/neuroplasticity, relationships, neurodiversity, random rabbit holes, anime, K dramas, psychological thrillers, podcasts, music, games, puzzles, escape rooms, immersive experiences, restaurants, different cultures, spooky things and cosplay.
• I’m also happy to offer emotional support or be your body double, errand companion, gym buddy, parallel play partner, social companion to survive an event together, advocate to help express your needs while navigating complicated systems, or best friend/companion to try to touch grass with.
• B.S. in Human Services with a concentration in Mental Health, with experience in case management, advocacy, mentoring, group facilitation and caregiving.
• Currently waiting for approval of my Certified Wellness Coach certification for K through 12 and young adults up to age 25. I’m also working toward my Professional Cuddle Certification.
• Long term, I’m interested in becoming an EQ coach and consultant helping people and social institutions connect with their authentic selves through human centered, accessible systems.
SERVICE AREAS
• Based in Carson/South Bay and mobile throughout Southern California.
• My starting location is Carson unless I’m already in Fullerton for an appointment. Travel fees still apply based on the round trip travel time required from whichever location I’m starting from.
• I’m frequently available in Fullerton/North OC based on bookings, but I don’t have set Fullerton days.
• Commute: $30/hr of round trip travel time.
• I do my best to cluster nearby appointments to keep travel costs more affordable for everyone. Flexibility with dates/times helps and may reduce your travel fee.
• To reduce travel costs, you’re also welcome to meet me closer to Carson or Fullerton.
BOOKING MINIMUM BY LOCATION
• Carson/South Bay + Long Beach: 1 to 2 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• Fullerton + North OC: 2 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• South OC: Costa Mesa, Newport Beach, Irvine, Tustin, Fountain Valley. 2 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• Beyond South OC: 3 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• LA area: 2 to 3 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• Inland Empire: 3 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• San Diego + North County: 3 hr minimum. Commute fee may apply.
• Virtual Companion: 30 min minimum. Choose how you’d like to spend our time: conversation/getting acquainted, a movie, emotional support, body doubling, virtual workout buddy or virtual cuddling. Platonic only. I cannot stress this enough.
GENERAL AVAILABILITY
My schedule changes weekly, so please ask. I’ll update you with my current availability. Extended hours may also be available upon request at an additional fee.
• 2 to 3 hr: Mon to Sun, 8 AM to 8 PM. Mondays and Thursdays until 5:30 PM.
• 4 to 5 hr: Tue, Wed, Fri to Sun, 8 AM to 8 PM.
• 10 hr Full Day: Tue, Fri & Sat, 8 AM to Midnight.
• 16 hr Overnight: Fri & Sat.
• Travel Companion / 24+ hrs: Advance notice required for arrangement.
VIRTUAL AVAILABILITY
• Mon to Fri: 8 AM to 3:30 PM PST.
• Some weekdays available from 8 PM. Evening sessions would take place privately from my car since I have roommates at home.
• Weekends: Varies.