What Are Some Good Cuddling Memories You Have?

[Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

Before I joined the site I would host a lot of cuddle parties or go to ones that friends hosted. Or I would just cuddle with friends, acquaintances, and people I trusted in general in public.

I think they were all special experiences. I'm part of many different groups such as the anime, manga, comic, video game, brony, furry, cartoon, science fiction, fantasy, steampunk, cyberpunk, action, adventure, horror, creepypasta, Godzilla, furry, art, writing, music, acting, voice acting, film, YouTube, modeling, photography, craft, paranormal, supernatural, treasure hunting, armchair treasure hunting, scuba treasure hunting, metal detecting, antique and collectibles, fashion design, graphic design, jewelry making, accessory making, sewing, crochet, knitting, needlepoint, sword fighting, weapons training, martial arts, SCA, calligraphy and lettering, historical reenactment, costuming, cosplay, hair styling, makeup, runway show, etc communities. I've met a lot of great cuddle buddies in the past through these communities.

I have good memories of meeting up at conventions and cuddling with all of the friends I had met on different fan sites. Group cuddles are some of the best. It's good to spread the joy of hugs, cuddles, and snuggles wherever you can.

But how about you guys? What are some of the good cuddling memories you have? I am curious to know.

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  • edited April 2018

    Most of them are from when I was younger, back when I wasn't actively seeking any kind of cuddle thing, just sort of happened organically amongst friends. I have known several people in my life in the sex industry, whether it be a dancer, BDSM dungeon sub or dom, or escort. They actually seem to always be down for a good cuddle as they don't really get much positive touch or attention that isn't some form of sexuality.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)
    edited April 2018

    @pmvines That is really interesting. I have personally never known any people in the BDSM, dungeon, dancer, escort, or other adult related communities. But I think it is awesome that you know people in those communities and can offer to give cuddles. I would be curious to hear about your cuddling adventures in those communities. That would also make a great book or documentary! :)

  • edited April 2018

    @MoonlightSonata In my late teens and early twenties two of my best friends were dancers. One actually went to Disney World with my mother, just the two of them lol. I would go see them when they got off work to cuddle. One was a punk rocker and the other was a dom. Both were super sweet but didn't let their guard down for just anybody, so it was nice to be in that inner circle. I have known a couple of prostitutes growing up who started using drugs when I did. I quit, they didn't, so they ended up homeless and selling their bodies. If I ran into them I always made sure to give them hugs and positive attention, hoping they would snap to reality and realize they were better than their lifestyles but addicts have weaknesses that aren't easily overcame. I currently know a woman who works in a dungeon as a sub who has really low self esteem. Sexually she prefers things to be quite rough and demeaning, but platonically she loves to be pampered and given positive praise, that whole yin/yang part of her. I also currently know an escort as well as a retired escort. The retired escort I had a fairly regular cuddle thing with at one point, and she really just craved normality and wanted to feel appreciated for her talents instead of her body. The other I went to for a massage once (not sex, I don't pay for that) and we really hit it off and just hung out talking most of the night. Now when she passes through town she calls me to see if I can meet up for lunch or movie or something, then we just cuddle. She has needs that aren't met through her clients, and needs to recharge and have some of the focus put back on her.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @pmvines I think it is great that you can give cuddles to the ladies in these other communities. It sounds like it is something they need that is different than what they usually experience. You have a really neat and precious relationship with all of those individuals. :)

  • I judge people by who and how they are not by what they do

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @pmvines That is a great way to view things. I also like people for who they are as individuals. :) It's always great to meet as many people as you can. You can learn a lot from everyone you talk to. I know that I have learned a lot just talking to people over the years. It has really opened up my mind to viewing the world in all sorts of new ways.

  • edited April 2018

    @MoonlightSonata I was a teenage drug addict who was quickly becoming quite the criminal. Had I not changed my lifestyle there is no telling where I would be today. I cant judge people for what they do because I know what its like to be desperate.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @pmvines It is good that you were able to overcome so many things in your life. You can definitely use those experiences to reach out to other people and help them. You have a powerful message to bring to people who are also trying to break out of addictions or other areas of their lives they are seeking to change. I think that is really great. It is always good to use personal life experiences to help other people who are in need of guidance.

  • edited April 2018

    I've never met anyone who wanted to cuddle, so having no cuddling experience, I have no cuddle memories, good or otherwise. However, I am not lacking in good memories of many other things.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @UKGuy What are some of the other great memories you can think of? I personally have a lot of great traveling memories. Traveling and exploration in general are some of my favorite things to do. :)

  • [Deleted User]czw321 (deleted user)

    Probably my first one, she was really sweet and we ended up becoming pretty good friends. I played with her hair and gave her some big hugs and she had the most adorable nerdy smile. I miss her :(

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @scottsteiner That sounds like a really great experience. :)

  • [Deleted User]czw321 (deleted user)

    It was, I remember when we went to the mall. Or the park. I did start getting a crush on her. And despite the heartache, she might've been the best pro I've met

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @scottsteiner I am glad that you were able to have that positive experience. It is always great when you can meet long-term cuddle buddies and become friends.

    It must have been hard to deal with getting a crush on your cuddle buddy though. Sorry you had to go through that aspect of it.

  • [Deleted User]czw321 (deleted user)

    She was really sweet about it at first, then it was like a 180

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @scottsteiner Everyone handles information like that differently. Some people can just roll with it and be supportive. Other people have to distance themselves for various reasons.

    I know this is something that comes up a lot in the cuddling community. Some people can be professional about it and work through what their clients are feeling. Open communication generally helps with this. Some people prefer to distance themselves from clients who seem like they are too attached.

    It varies from person to person.

    I hope that things could work out in your situation (even though distance was put between the two of you). I hope that you could both come out of the situation with nice memories.

  • [Deleted User]czw321 (deleted user)

    Honestly it'd be nice to hear from her again

  • I have a ridiculous amount of amazing cuddle memories. It would take me forever to write about all of them.

  • edited April 2018

    @MoonlightSonata - most of my good memories are of people I have known or places I have been.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @scottsteiner Maybe one day you will. :)

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @Morpheus I have a lot of great cuddling memories too so I know how that is.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @UKGuy I've done a lot travel alone as well. But I have also traveled with friends and family too.

  • Cuddling with my girlfriend was the first time I felt deep down that I was loved.

    One day she was hanging out at my place, and near the end of the day I got a headache. To try to combat it, I got my scalp massager and started using it, alternating between it and my hands. That can sometime alleviate the pain enough to ignore it without having to resort to drugs. After she watched me do that for a few minutes, she told me to lay my head on her lap, and she massaged my scalp for me. She was never a touchy person and this was the first time she had ever offered to let me lay my head on her lap, so it came as a total shock. She wasn't very good at the massaging and it even hurt when she stayed focused too long on one spot, but it felt so good emotionally that I just soaked it in.

    She had told me before that she loved me, but this was the first time that I felt the truth of it in my heart. Someone finally loved me, and it was the woman that I loved more than anyone else in the world! It made me so happy that the headache didn't matter any more; the physical pain couldn't compare to how good I felt. After the massage, I gave her a ride home, and on the way I had to pull over because I couldn't hold it in any more. I started bawling uncontrollably. I felt so happy and loved that it just overflowed.

    My crying made her really uncomfortable because she was never the kind of person to show much emotion at all and she didn't know how to react to it. I cried a lot with her in the few years we were together, and she never got used to it, but she just had that effect on me. Her touch reached deep in to the core of my being where nobody else has ever been and gently dissolved the walls that held in all of the emotions that I had kept bottled up for my whole life. She was really good for me.

    Goodness, do I miss her! And she got so good at those scalp massages that she could use her fingernails to send electric jolts of pleasure down my back that made me shiver. I never did figure out how she could find those spots. She'd feel around a bit, put a fingernail in one spot, and wiggle it in with just a little pressure and the shocks would start firing. They'd even make me giggle a little sometimes.

  • [Deleted User]MoonlightSonata (deleted user)

    @Mailleweaver That's a really great experience. Thank you for sharing it. I am glad that you can have that happy memory. :)

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