creepy stalker

edited December 2018 in General

I met this guy a few weeks ago, who had a profile under the name "apples4u". He was the weirdest guy I had ever met. I had to cut the cuddle session short. Then he tried to contact me again but I respectfully asked him not to contact me until I contacted him. He did not stop. Then I had no choice but to block him. Recently, he made a fake profile under the name "Hugohug" and contacted me again. Kept asking me all sorts of weird questions, like if I would model for him or reconsider the terms and conditions of the website. I respectfully told him no. Then he asked for a cuddle session again and I asked him for a picture, which he refused to send, until he finally admitted that he was the same person. I reported all his accounts on the website, but I'm not sure how to prevent him from making more. Is there any way to screen?

Comments

  • can you get an actually restraining order? I knew someone who harassed a friend and even contacting you via social media is illegal. This kindah behavior cannot be tolerated.

  • @katwinters38 I think she mentioned the same thing about that guy

  • edited December 2018

    @apples4u has been banned for some days now and was a somewhat present commenter here, but something about his diction and whatnot did throw me off. Now I know why. Thanks for warning us.

  • @Catloaf wow I just randomly came across this..yes I was talking about my bad experience with a guy that came to see me for a session and apples4u started insulting me left and right about my photos saying they were too provocative!!!! Stay away from him omg. If you guys recall my post it was about axel72...and you can see apples4u trying to insult me for whatever reason..he should be banned from here

  • Like two days after the argument..I see apples4u viewing my page..I'm like some thing ain't right with this guy...

  • [Deleted User]teapot (deleted user)

    I'm glad you're okay

  • Thank god nothing bad happened..we got to be so careful on here! @Miabear I'm glad that your okay!!

  • Thank you everyone for your comments, suggestions and support. I gave him a warning and asked him to never bother me again. If he does, then it might be a good idea to get a restraining order.

  • Hope he leaves you alone @Miabear

  • Look online for the requirements of the restraining order before you go into the courthouse. I believe its possible to get it already cause I think its: fear of safety and 2 incidents. There's more to it, but worth checking out before leaving the house.

  • Thanks @MsClickers.
    @TisDoney, you're probably right. I will check it out and definitely go for it in case he ever bothers me again

  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)

    Truly pathetic and repulsive.

    100% agree to look for ways to keep yourself safe.

    Good luck.

  • Totally repulsive ! @Miabear is such a warm and intelligent young lady , its a shame that there are people who are so sleazy and have no respect for others. Maybe have a phone conversation before you meet someone or meet in a public place first , not saying it will weed out all the creeps but at least you can get a vibe

    Stay Safe

  • Thank you @chococuddles
    Can't wait to see you soon @bigben!

  • You would need his actual name to get a restraining order and someway of identifying him.
    Really hate stalkers.
    They are scum
    Make sure before meeting any new cuddler client to talk or text beforehand also get new selfie from them showing today's newspaper of something on TV that is live so you know it's a recent selfie and not something they stole off internet.
    They say keep all conversation on site but that is stupid not to have their phone number or you have no way of telling police how to find them if they do something illegal.

  • [Deleted User]Theshystud (deleted user)

    The only creepy stalker I had was actually in person, a customer to my store. I havn't seen her in a while, but she asks about me when I she comes in. very creepy.

  • @Miabear
    Sorry you had to deal with this, its terrible. Diligence is important in staying safe. Glad there is open communication in the forums and site fellow cuddlers to have a safe environment.

  • He hasn't contacted me since. I guess he knows better

  • I’m so sorry that happened. I hope things go better for you

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