@RaindropSweetie Respectfully speaking, you are not a guy. Guys lie all the time. They may tell their wives they are cool with them cuddling for money, up until it is go time and then they change their minds. This is what I think about most. I do not want to be the trigger for a jealous rage. I think this is being over analyzed for what it is—my preference. I do not want to cuddle a married woman with that lingering thought in the back of my mind. Pretty simple stuff. In order to relax, I need to clear my mind and that is one of the things that would prevent it. For the most part there is less baggage with a single person.
UK guy lol. You must have really strong weed in the UK.
Touching is also an adjective. It was a touching moment during the massage when the masseuse turned out to be his missing ex-wife that he believed to be dead.
Raindropsweetie, I would think a married pro is more apt to get involved with the client. For one, they are already likely a very open minded person from being a married cuddler. They may very well be in an open marriage. Furthermore, they may also think wow this client is less unattractive than my husband, and more enjoyable to be around. Plus, the client has plenty of money- affording my exorbitant rates! But that is just my two cents. To each his/ her own.
@boomerang86 Interesting. Classic reverse psychology either conscious or unconscious. Wow! Nice thinking.
@boomerang86 I mean, it's possible but that all depends on if the pro is there to be a professional like they're supposed to be, or to find a date, or a new Mr. Right, is unhappy in their marriage and wants to leave, or isn't and would be open to a second partner and blah blah blah... I digress, this line of thought's somewhat a mess... Whole lot of "mays" in there and a whole lot of conjecture.
Huh ? @boomerang86 if they are being paid to cuddle they are doing it as a job not due to potential for extra marital hookups
Thank you PeopleLikeUs. Pmvines what in the world are you talking about?
Talking about your post suggesting if someone is a paid cuddler and is married they are more likely to want to do more than cuddle with you
I was responding to another post- and you misrepresented what I stated.
Ok then I'd that's the case my bad . care to clarify ?
I would let my statement speak for itself. I never said anything to suggest a pro cuddler was joining the site with the intent of “extra marital hookups”.
Okie dokie then
To touch something...…"touch" is an action verb. If you are standing behind someone and tap them on the shoulder, they did not touch you. You touched them. Just because people say two bodies in contact are touching does not make it the correct use of the word. They are in contact. When talking about physical touch (not talking sentimentality, it's a cuddle site, yeah?), touch is an action.
Yeah, I'd say the same that physical contact has to be done by both parties to be considered touch.
Otherwise, would you tell someone getting touch, and doesn't want touch as someone ALSO doing the touching? How does that work?
Now still one could argue that they do not want their partner touching another this or that way. That would be a discussion of its own. Likewise, getting touched. Or both.
If you write long and detailed messages then you're most likely going to get a response.
@FascinatingLee I'd say about 5 well thought out sentences is pretty reasonable for a first message. Although, I also like a "Hey, how are you?" Then going from there if there's a response, send a few thoughtful messages, and proceed to trying to get together.
You guys are blowing my mind! 😶😯🤗