Hostility is not for me.

mickcuddle

This was a nice place. But as our world has become less friendly less tolerant, so has this place. I just don’t feel good when I come here any more. I apologize to those of you who have been welcoming and friends to me. I have a couple of open conversations, so I’ll keep my account for a couple weeks to close those things out. I took a break from this place about a year ago, but I came back. I don’t think so this time. Bless you all whether I love you or pray for you soul ... or both.

Michael

AceCuddlerMike

(rides off into the sunset.....opens a fast food franchaise......introduces the McCuddle)

Catloaf

We may not have agreed eye-to-eye on everything, but I have enjoyed reading your input wherever it was. Another great one gone. I'll be sad to see you go.

__#mickcuddle. I completely agree!! This place has become a meat market for the men. I make sure that my possible buddy understands that there won’t be any sexual activity. Your hands can’t go where my clothes cover. Now I have to worry every time a man moves his hand. 90% of the time the men completely push those boundaries until I get upset for having to protect myself. Then they get MAD 😡. The cuddle then ends very awkwardly and I never hear from them again!! I just want to CUDDLE. Is there really anyone who will just CUDDLE me without trying to get more???

JasonCuddles

I would Edouble, but we live too far away.

TheFunCartel

You will be missed mick. You were one of the good guys on the forum.

Kense

Why does everybody blame men on here for everything? What about the women who are sending the wrong signals trying to show massive amounts of cleavage and legs in mini skirts? It’s obviously an attempt to draw in men with their body parts. Yet it’s the mans fault for thinking sexual?

boomerang86

Yes Kense- attractive women are the worst 🙄

TheFunCartel

@Kense So you are saying you see a pair of boobs and your sense of right and wrong vanishes into thin air?

A perfect example, hopefully intentional, of why men are given little trust, and even less benefit of the doubt.

Frankly, as long as this sort of attitude persists, I don’t blame anyone for not trusting men.

Kense

Nice strawman. So you’re pretending like women posting photos on here with their boobs hanging out making duck faces and showing their upper thighs in mini skirts doesn’t welcome the men getting the wrong impression? A cuddle site that’s platonic yet you pretend to not notice there are women that do that in order to attract men yet you want to play like you have no idea why some men may have the wrong idea about this site? lol

TheFunCartel

@Kense Not a straw man. You just expanded on your point and articulated your point better. But even if a woman posted a nude pic and she said strictly platonic—you still keep it platonic. Pretty simple to anyone in control of themselves.

But to your point, if a photo is posted that is blatantly sexual it is incumbent upon members of CC to report it.

boomerang86

Wrong idea about someone wearing summer clothing? I see shirtless men with man boobs and disgusting bodies on the trail near my home often. It is summer time you sound thirsty.

TheFunCartel

@boomerang86 Lol 😂

Kense

Boomerang you’re trying to hard , random
People at the beach aren’t offering to cuddle up with people for a fee are they?

Beach clothes at the beach . Would you wear a bikini to work in an office?

I don’t see any men on here posting shirtless in their profile pics and the ones that have were banned.

Kense

The point is , if you don’t want certain sexual attention when you’re advertising to hug somebody for an hour you know exactly what to do to not receive it. You can’t assume everybody is a nice person and will accept no.

Why not cut your chance of attracting some freak by not advertising yourself like that? If you don’t want to get robbed in Brazil don’t wear jewelry in a favela.

boomerang86

I don’t see your point. Of course the pros want business, and a good way to get more is attractive photos. It is basic marketing.
However there are plenty of unattractive pros (men and women) for you to book if you so choose. There are plenty of pros that are closer to 1s then 10s. They must still get some business, or they wouldn’t bother spending money on the web site.

PeopleLikeUs

"You can’t assume everybody is a nice person and will accept no." This statement suposes that it may be a woman's fault for having been raped.

The problem with social/discussion sites on the internet is a lot of people would rather hang out in these chatrooms than go out there and make a life for themselves or help someone in need. Get out there and put in a good hard day of work, then you won't have time to cause trouble or hostility. Bullying and bashing of others need to be dealt with once and for all

Leave the internet social/discussion sites to those who are primarily shut-in their homes and can't get out through no fault of their own. If you have a beef with someone, hire an attorney, take them to court and make sure they don't see the light of another day.

Kense

@PeopleLikeUs stop assuming . We’re not talking about rape. I’m talking about this site and how some men may get the wrong impressions based on some people’s chosen photos. There’s a multi page thread of people reporting the people I’m talking about to the mods. If it wasn’t an issue then there would be discussion on it. There are plenty of people here looking to sell the perception of more might be allowed.

PeopleLikeUs

@Kense "We’re not talking about rape." Taking action against a woman's insistence of "no" is rape.

boomerang86

Although I do not agree with Kense’s point it is sad someone is reckless and insensitive enough of a human being to say he is advocating rape. I think anyone sane would have viewed his comments as referring to some men not thinking this is a platonic only service because of the type of pictures pro cuddlers post.

PeopleLikeUs

No one here has advocated rape. Rape culture on the other hand, maybe.

@PeopleLikeUs: 👍

It also doesn't help that "attractive" and "sexually attractive" are often seen as the same thing. (Especially for the female-bodied.)

boomerang86

If I had to infer why he’s upset it is because he booked a session with a pro cuddler with pictures he deemed provocative. He made a pass at her and she said no. Now he is butt-hurt that he spent money expecting non-platonic services and not getting them.

luv2cudl2

Yes, there’s multiple women posting pictures of themselves wearing sexy lingerie that reveals a lot of skin. When you see this, is it assumed she’ll be okay wearing that same outfit or something similar during a session? Has anyone ever received backlash due to asking if she does? Lastly, if they say No, would you consider that false advertising?

Personally, I’ve never had any communication with these members but do think they’d cuddle in an outfit shown in a picture.

@luv2cudl2: ...You cuddle wearing a hat?

boomerang86

luv2cudl the site rules say a tank top and shorts at minimum. So I think you’d be safe requesting that. Anything more revealing is against site policy.

pmvines

What is the thread topic again ?

pmvines

It's ok I can wait ....

SuperManCuddles

@McCuddle You will be terribly missed. You offered great and balanced viewpoints, remained calm when others care at you, great friend and cuddle buddy. I understand exactly what you are referring to in this forum post, despite being close to you and agree. Wish you the best.