"I'm hoping to cuddle with a very wealthy woman who is mentally and physically attractive. She tells me it has always been her dream to find a fat, bald ugly black guy like me to take care of."
@CaliCuddlingGuy I LITERALLY LOL'd!
Yeah, I am hoping for a weekly session with a tall, muscular man with a beard who smells like sandlewood to cuddle me silly in the poshest suite at the Ritz Carlton (on his black Amex) while respecting boundaries. #dreams
My real answer: To be in the moment. I have a high-stress job/life and my brain is always on, I'm always on. It's exhausting. Cuddling is the one time I put my cell away, and for those hours, just relax and be in the moment. I don't think about anything but my cuddle partner and the comfort of being held and holding someone. It's the only time I feel that other than when I am having a massage.
@2dogmom Ohhh I forgot the Black Amex. My real answer is just someone that I get along well with and okay sharing space with. As long as their hygiene is good, I am accepting and compatible with pretty much everything else.
@DonLonG BANNED
@pmvines it’s ok to say you expect everyone to cuddle like me... 😉😆
@2dogmom I didn't know your forum posts were erased as well when you got banned. Does that mean I am one bad post away from having all my content erased, possibly throughout the entire forum?
@DonLonG yeppers... and I’m one F-bomb... 😂😂
@DonLonG Not entirely - that is determined on a case-by-case basis.
Hope for the best and expect the unexpected! Can't go wrong that way .
@DrJames Or as I like to do—expect the worst and you will never be disappointed. 😄
@FunCartel that's something my grandmother used to say lol ... you should always expect a stab on the back from your close friends , that way you will never feel betrayed when it happens. 😂
I'm hoping for mindful awareness and an openness to receiving and giving hugs, thoughtful soothing touches as well as a willingness to learn and teach new ways of cuddling. As long as both persons agree. Most importantly a willingness and mindful awareness to communicate and give meaningful feedback on what worked and didn't work well for both of us.
I have to chime in and say that I'm not really sure how this will work yet, though I suppose there'd have to be trust, a nice match in body proportions, as I'm 5"10 and prefer to be big spoon or total pretzel when it's winter, and definitely comfort in one's own skin. Beyond that? No way to really know.
How do the rest of you get the ball rolling to establish that? I personally don't really know someone or their energy until I've met them, so I'm hesitant to invest the energy in a lot of texting chatter just to lead up to finding out.