I was wondering again about the preponderance of men on this site compared to women. I have assumed, as other have, that this simply a general reflection of the male gender tendency to take the role of the pursuer. Recently I was thinking about the general tendency for men to compartmentalize things in their life and the tendency for women to be more holistic in their approach to life. In this regard, I was wondering if the idea of separating the touch/cuddling form the sexual act generally is more intriguing to men than women. Just a thought.any other takes on this?