my suggestion is to take your partner to a cuddle party and share in the experience. check it out first. they provide some education and are facilitated by someone trained. I've been to a few where a spouse or significant other has attended and has left with insight, education, and acceptance, or at least a better understanding. communication is soo important.
@happybear that’s a great idea ☺️ If the hubby goes for it, I’m sure he would see how amazing it is
@Sheena123 I've seen it happen 3 times soo far. I've cuddled and talked with the cuddlers wives. Two of the men have returned with their wives or by themselves since. It was great to see. Its soo individual that acceptance is there. im sure.