@pmvines 👍🏼 @quixotic_life there are Hot springs in Arkansas that have bath houses and it’s fantastic! Come on over we will go! Also I wanted to go live in a tree house there that has a hot tub outside and now you do get modest covered swimsuits as @pmvines said don’t go with the ones that turn into gremlins in hot water, go with a trusted long time buddy who is an ADULT and understands consent & follows rules.
Also I’ll hide since it may be off topic but
What is with all these massage messages? I get that it’s touch but I have heard massage means more than platonic cuddling please educate this naive being🙏🏼
I think they probably want to see you in swimwear!
I stand by my original comment that it shouldn't even be considered. Some have suggested that if you're really close with someone and you really trust them then it should be ok. Those people don't need to be asking the forum. The op was new and had several people that she didn't know asking. It shouldn't be considered. The answer is no. Those guys are looking for bikini cuddling... I don't care what you say...no different than underwear.
@PrinceDon ~ Fair enough. In that context your stance makes sense and I can appreciate where you're coming from. To be fair, I received a message with a pic of this guy in his hot tub, no face, all stretched out, jets on, with the note, "Wish you were here." And all I could think was, "Oh, hell nope!"
@Melomaniac9 ~ Whoot! Road trip!! And back at you for coming to Oregon!!
@PrinceDon the OP actually deactivated their account in 2016 but ok
@quixotic_life come to Memphis & I’ll come to Oregon🤩
The fact the op deactivated their account is interesting but irrelevant. The string was launched, the context hasn't changed, and active members of the community are still discussing it. If you haven't figured it out yet, I love this community and I sincerely want to protect it. ALL of you.
The only way I'd be comfortable with it is if it was in a public hot tub and I was wearing a one-piece bathing suit.
@PrinceDon sure as do I as well as others on here . You referenced responding to OP. She deactivated in 2016. No need to be defensive, nobody is criticizing you .apologies if you took it that way