What is your cuddle fantasy? 😂 Rated PG

😂please don’t say anything you will regret or get you kicked off!

I would love to be sandwich between two guys all night. Just cuddling, lots of platonic touching while respecting each other’s boundaries. They could have all the covers cause I overheat. Caresses, massages, embraces from front and behind at the same time sounds beyond wonderful.
Sorry guys, nothing naughty! Just a night filled with relaxed, soothing pleasure with peaks of oxytocin highs. No regrets because there was nothing to regret. No sex.

Mike403

Mine would be just cuddling and never hearing the word "virtual" again.

geoff1000

Teleportation, so we could be together instantly without commuting.

I tried that one time and felt like the lame version of a sexy phone call. I only want the real thing. Not against virtual cuddling. It helps others or is just the right amount of cuddling for those that do not want or can’t touch. Really not my cup of tea. Funny... I know that is something I would do out of love in long distance relationship. Has not happened and fingers crossed never will.

@geoff1000 if you could teleport anywhere would you to cuddle?

Mike403

@lovelyhugs - A pro I was seeing for 3 years stopped seeing me in March due to the COVID-19 pandemic and I'm not comfortable with paying for a virtual session.

geoff1000

@lovelyhugs
A log cabin, miles from nowhere, with an open fire.
Maybe CC should buy one of these for members to borrow.

Kiroshi

A long, intertwined cuddle with someone I'm comfortable with, electronics off, except for some music and slowly fall asleep holding each other

@geoff1000 teleportation makes me think of all sorts of things:

• nude beach on particularly hot day before anyone is there at sunrise
• Room to see the clear night sky in comfort like this In Finland.
  

-cuddling on a soft, tall meadow I’m not allergic too, and a hop skip away from a vineyard in France.

Jet😂only if I get to do barrel rolls and loops.

Cuddled up on a sofa watching a film or show for a few hours, with a cat or small dog there as well for extra snuggles.

@Zundar I understand how it’s not always the impossible we crave but the simpler things during this pandemic👍🏽

I wonder if cuddling in an antigravity chamber would be fun... lol stupid I know, but I’m thinking of all those space movie scenes with intimate moments. Would miss the weighted feel of another body draped over me. Something oddly comforting.

A whole cuddle pile

Yes girl yes

pmvines

Not a fantasy , but I do like falling asleep with somebody. My friend and I snuggle up at her house pretty regularly but because of work , drive , home obligations etc I always end up leaving before I want to lol

Cuddling with a guy and a girl all night guy in the middle first then each of us taking turns being in the middle. Watching a movie and just falling asleep with not to much talking.

ScrantonCuddler

My fantasy is for it to happen. I’ve spent years looking for my first cuddle partner. Seems the only way it’ll ever happen is if I pay which I don’t want to do.

happybear

I posted this in another discussion about cuddle fantasy a while back, still feel this captures the feeling for me. Sorry for the repeat...

Deep conversation for hours, eating sweet and savory desserts, some cold beverages, a walk thorough a lavender farm, engulfed in the smells and sights of nature, relaxing in the bluffs, embracing until the sun goes down, watching the night sky come alive, sharing dreams, life's plan, allowing the star's in the sky to light and reflect on our bodies, tracing the star reflections with the gentlest of touches on my cuddle partner's back and body, as they are doing the same to mine, as our hand's pass those reflections, they light us up as we sizzle and quiver, breathe and sigh...…..

@happybear
OMG..be careful after all that your cuddle buddy may just fall in love. Your such a romantic at heart.

geoff1000

@ScrantonCuddler
How about thinking of it not as paying for cuddling, but paying for cuddle training.

Imagine the first time you get to cuddle a non-pro ; it will be like your first date, with all the anxiety and mistakes.

You don't even need to actually physically cuddle with the pro, just discuss it, bounce some ideas off them. A non-pro is likely to want some sitting and talking first.

happybear

@lovelyhugs
Thank you 🤗 your sweet..

rob241

Hugging a polar bear, so it's either gonna be this:

or this:

Waynecha4

Right now my cuddle fantasy is just being able to actually enjoy a cuddle. I've only had one this entire year.

littermate

I would like to be Max in "Where the Wild Things Are" and cuddle in a pile of fuzzy monsters.

ShoreThang

Yo, girl, I never thought of a double cuddle. You just blew my mind.

I think I like the stereotypical, order something unhealthy for you and indulge with someone. I'd love to meet someone and act like you know eachother and be painfully honest, open and vulnerable. Be able to have a sleepover as well. Cuddle for hours, eat food and chat and laugh about stupid shit. Then retire for the night together for even more cuddling.

ScrantonCuddler

@geoff1000

I really don’t think paying for “training” is the solution. In my area, the vast majority of women I’ve contacted are untagged pros or inactive. Currently, Covid makes it worse because it is very unlikely I would meet a like-minded person who treats Covid as seriously as I do.

geoff1000

@ScrantonCuddler
I think cuddling is paused for most of us with the pandemic.

I know you don't want to pay for cuddling, or cuddle training. Does that also rule out paying for gas mileage, flights, or hotel rooms ; to cuddle with a non-pro ? Would you pay for their travel, or a baby-sitter, or buy them dinner ?

My understanding is that female non-pros on the site aren't looking for a typical "relationship" ; so if you want long-term and exclusivity, and no cost, you probably won't find it here.

I tried to check your profile to see if your age-range was too narrow, but you've blocked me.

ScrantonCuddler

I’ve experienced this problem of finding a partner for years, not just during the pandemic.

I’m simply not interested in paying an hourly rate to cuddle with someone. I’m not opposed to others doing it, it’s just my preference. I wouldn’t get the same out of the experience knowing I could only get it by paying. Other costs that may be incurred indirectly are different and don’t bother me. I can host or travel relatively short distances and not care about paying for my gas or whatever. None of that is a problem. Like I said, the problem is most often that the women in my area tend to be untagged pros.

I’m not necessarily looking for long-term or exclusivity. I don’t care if I only cuddle with a woman one time. I would just like to have that experience.

My age range is pretty broad. It’s not a hard limit but I generally look for under 45.

geoff1000

@ScrantonCuddler
Some men aren't interested in cuddling ( or having sex ) if they have to go through the chore ( as they see it ) of : making conversation, giving compliments, or otherwise enduring the non-physical aspect of the arrangement. As George Clooney's character says in "The American", "I'm here to get pleasure, not to give it". You are very much the other way. 👍👍

My interpretation of it ( and I can see it isn't yours, which I'm genuinely OK with ), is that my financial payment is simply an alternative to the "Acts of Kindness", which are some people's Love Language. I can't give my time to help out with the chores in their home, but can contribute to the cost of the labour-saving devices and electricity. I can't look after their kids, but can pay for the baby-sitter. I can't stand guard overnight on their front door, but can help them pay for a burglar alarm or the higher rent of a place in a safer part of town. I can't walk them home, but can pay for their taxi. etc.

Money might seem impersonal ; but it represents the hard work I've done, and the nice things and experiences I've gone without. I suppose if a billionaire hands over a similar sum of money, it's less valuable to them than the loose change in my pocket is to me ; so they wouldn't feel they've made any kind of investment, and hence wouldn't "value" the experience so highly. The million dollars in "Indecent Proposal" was nothing to the man who paid it.

ScrantonCuddler

For me, it would mean a lot more if someone chooses to spend time with me without compensation. I’m not denying there is value to people who pay for cuddling. If someone makes time for me without me paying, it feels like they see me as worth being around. If we connect and have a great time, it’ll feel more genuine to me. If I’m paying, I won’t really know if they’re just tolerating me or putting on an act for the money.