@geoff1000 ~ exactly "My rule of thumb would be that the subject of non-platonic behaviour, should not be broached, in a situation where it could then happen immediately."
"If the feeling is reciprocal, the invite will wait. If the suggestion is made at a time when it could be immediately acted upon, it is likely being done in the hope of obtaining a good result, while the other person is "in the mood", or is reluctant to object. This is equivalent to them being "in an emotionally vulnerable state", and is hence a form of exploitation; and people who worry that might happen to them, will not get the benefit of being able to temporarily let down their emotional guard."
So if you think you might like to take things a step further, discuss it beforehand (off of CC) or wait until the cuddle time has ended (making your desire something you can look forward to having fulfilled at your next encounter should they agree).
@quixotic_life Thanks 👍