I am on the verge of requiring deposits for new clients. I have been doing this for over a year and there’s always been bad weeks where I was plagued with cancellations. I generally felt like there were more good apples than bad apples and that having a deposit requirement would just scare away way too many potential new clients which is not some thing I can afford to do during a pandemic when business has been slow. This weekend I was supposed to see client A on Friday night Client B during the day Saturday and client C on Saturday night. Client A pushed back the session 45 minutes and then stopped answering his phone and ended up being a no-show, wasting two hours of my time. Then finally client A reached out to me and told me his phone died and came up with some sob story once I was basically home already. The next day client A tried to reschedule and I told him I already had two sessions with clients B and C but then shortly afterwards client C canceled so client A agreed to take over that time I would have been with client C. My current cancellation policy does require people who cancel or are no-shows to pay a deposit if they want to rebook. So I told client A that he had to pay $100 deposit before I would agree to see him and he had until I was done with client B at 3pm. Of course 3 PM rolled around and I had not gotten so much as a text let alone a deposit from client A so now I have no Saturday night session. Then tonight I was supposed to have another session and that also got canceled last minute. So overall I lost out on about $600 in one weekend due to people canceling last minute I also missed out on going to a birthday party and a day trip to the Poconos because I thought I had to work and I could’ve done both of those things. I’ve had weeks where I probably lost out on $1000 or more due to cancellations. My plan was to wait until this pandemic had subsided more and my business was doing better to start requiring deposits because I have heard from several professional cuddlers that it’s even harder to get booked when you have a deposit requirement. I am already having a hard time getting booked, devoting hours of my week just reaching out to people and doing the video chat consults. I would like to hear what people’s thoughts are on deposits from both the professional cuddler perspective and the client perspective.