Describe your perfect cuddle setting

cuddles_ndream

We all have our personal preferences as far as setting goes for the perfect cuddle, & along with having someone who is respectful/ clean/ caring/ sweet & just simply amazing, what kind of setting will just add to the experience? For me a very comfortable bed 🛌 SlowJamz/SoftRock in the background 🎶 & scented candles 🕯 will do it for me every single time (perfect escape ☺️)

cuddlerforu24

I’d be at my ranch on the sleeping porch in the evening at summer solstice there s a full moon and the crickets go “ cricket”, the marsh hens go” cackle” and the owls go “ who”

cuddles_ndream

@cuddlerforu24 lol I’m gonna steal a bit from you !! A perfect cuddle setting for me will also be a summer evening where the night sky eventually comes to life & you’re able to view all the stars & that perfect night setting 🌌

ElleCuddleMi

Anywhere by the water or in view of it during my cuddle session.. I love listening to the water and winds. Close your eyes and smell the fresh air.
I haven't done that yet I'm waiting on the perfect opportunity. Just waiting for takers 😇.
Inside i like cuddling on a couch with a great movie to capture the embrace. Even love it more for scary or intense movies, the cuddles are way more personal that way 😉
🤗🤗

cuddles_ndream

@ElleCuddleMi thank you for describing both scenarios (outside in the open as well as inside setting) I should have included this & be more specific smh @ me 🤦‍♂️ lol 😂 both scenarios sound amazing !!! ☺️🤗🤗

A blanket on a quiet beach. Soft pillows, blue sky with wispy clouds slowly blowing over .A nice bottle of wine and snacks.
A warm but not overly hot day.

cuddles_ndream

@Mmart ^!

LyleLuvsHuggles

In the hammock on the deck of my house boat with the moon reflecting off the water as the waves lap softly against the hull, Rio lit up in the background with the sounds of Carnival faintly mixing into the night birds song. Oh to be young again.

HUGGGGGG

A good heart and silence ...

quixotic_life

My perfect cuddle setting, is related to more than just the physical space... In addition to, plenty of time, in a space that allows a feeling of isolated escape from the world outside, it has some or all of the above... Low light, a nice candle, a comfy king bed with memory foam pillows and a well stocked mini fridge next to it. A large picture window with an unobscured view of nature, a bathroom with adequate sound blocking, a ceiling fan and a room temp at 67°... but really, the most important part of my ideal setting...

... Is a welcoming man, who's been open and honest with me, he's sweet and kind with a good sense of humor and has been looking forward to seeing, holding, and doting on me as much as I've been him. He's an equally squishy and solid guy, who smells good, has nice hands and has skin and hair that beg to be touched. He likes being close and tangled and he has an intuitive ability to both flip my shiver switches and to slowly enter into into an all-consuming, light-headed, euphoric cuddle high with me too.

Afterwards, over the following 24 hours or so, I slip in and out of a sleep coma, and have phantom cuddle sensations and smiles that last for days! Plus, I can't wait until next time ~ That's really how I know the entire setting was stellar!! 😊

LyleLuvsHuggles

@quixotic_life you forgot your mic drop luv cuz DAMNED, perfect pretty much sums that up!

quixotic_life

@NightShift39 🥰 Yours also sounds perfectly delightful!! If I could, I'd build my design for an amphibious house boat/overland style RV that has a roof built for outdoor living! A bbq and comfy chairs for eating, and a pop up canopy, with insect reducing mesh walls and a travel hammock stand with a reinforced nylon hammock that gently sways in the breeze inviting squishy snuggles... ahh... the life that would be...!

cuddles_ndream

@quixotic_life i agree with NightShift39, that was wow!!!

LyleLuvsHuggles

@quixotic_life they totally make those you know

quixotic_life

@NightShift39 ~ Oh, I know!!! I've whistfully rabbit-holed on them soooo many times!

A brief, 'going off the initial thread topic response' continuation...

The issue with the ones I've seen (other than the prohibitive costs), are the requirements I have... It needs to not exceed National Park camping rig size/length limits (as far as I know theirs are the most restrictive), it can't exceed 12'6" in total height because it needs to be able to pass through the tunnels on one of my favorite highways, and I don't want to have to get a CDL-TSP type of endorsement just to go from one place to another. I have yet to find one that meets all three of those essentials though...

But, I've collected a mess of feature ideas and have rough designs for one that would be my ideal to build if I knew what I were doing!!! Which I don't ~ lol!

Also, fyi... I'm going to PM you in a few to continue this convo... 😉

FlyingToaster

I think it's nice to be in a place that is just overall comfortable - Soft/dim lighting, somewhere quiet (relaxing music is okay too), a cool temperature, and a comfortable space to sit/lay on.

I think there are several places/scenarios that can make for good cuddles though. Aside from regular living space, I think one nice scenario for cuddling would be somewhere with a clear sky to stargaze together (and a comfortable portable mattress). It could be outside or inside a tent or RV with a clear section of roof. Also, I think a boat could be a nice place for cuddles. Combine the two for stargazing on a boat.

As has been said, the company you're with is an important factor - Someone who is an affectionate cuddler and could potentially also get totally wrapped up in cuddles with together.

LyleLuvsHuggles

This is true the right partner can make ANYWHERE the perfect cuddle setting for the moment.

pmvines

Wherever I am when I'm with the person I'm with

TheMidnightOwl

Safe, unpressured, respectful, clear and open communication, warmhearted, boundary-conscious, aware, attentive, intuitive, clean, patient, cozy, and completely platonic. The rest is peripheral.

cuddles_ndream

For the regulars here on the forums & on the threads who post regularly , I’m curious on your 1st post ever … this is mines nearly 1 year & a half ago now… time flies ☺️

BlueIris

The cuddle corner in my living room with incense burning and meditation music.

Minestrone101

Happy 1.5 years @cuddles_ndream . For me, I'm low maintenance. Just need a small roofed area with a soft landing ...the soft landing is optional...maybe the roof too if weather permits. Lol

Food and maybe music/TV shows/movies are a plus, and any extra ambience will be amazing: scented candles, essental oils, dimmed lighting, comfortable furniture, clean and neat environment, nature is a plus, minimal background noise (besides nature sounds...although rain fall on the roof and even a lightening storm would be awesome), and time...lots of time.

cuddles_ndream

@BlueIris you have such a nice cuddle space ☺️ & I like that you have a cat (or cats) 🐈 🐈‍⬛ 🌌

@cylee1180 ty! In 2 months it’ll be 2 years since I signed up to the site (I was late at discovering the forums 😅 & yes both nature & candles would allow for an even better experience imo

Minestrone101

@cuddles_ndream Whiskey on the rocks! Hold the whiskey!

achetocuddle

@cuddles_ndream And since you discovered the forum, you have been making up for it ever since - LOL. Sincerely, Your Friendly Fellow Forum Addict.

cuddles_ndream

Wow @achetocuddle that definitely belonged in the dark humor thread 😮😯😐😶😢😭

cuddles_ndream

I need hugs 😭

Minestrone101

Pobrecito! Lol

cuddles_ndream

Lol but I still haven’t get hugs … where are my hugs @achetocuddle

achetocuddle

@cuddles_ndream Sorry, I was advising a new member. I hope you know I was just kidding, dear one. I can't tell. Here's gobs of hugs. Hug, hug, rubbing your back. Truly, I was playing.

cuddles_ndream

Nooo I was messing! but ty sooo much for the hugs 🤗 🫂 🌌