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43 - Man - Portland, Oregon, US
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Well here goes, I am currently in the end stages of a lengthy divorce. (We've been legally separated for over a year, live in different states and have no communication save through the lawyers). Just wanted to be up front about this in case it does not meet your definition of single. Building trust is after all a two way street. :)
I work the night shift so Monday-Friday my open times are early morning, 4:30 ish Am to around 10 am at the latest. Saturday&Sunday however are wide open (I don't sleep much lately so I have plenty of time lol)
My best friend has flat out told me I'm psycho in a good way. My humor runs to dark mostly due to a rough life and having worked in hospitals, a morgue (as a janitor at both) and a cemetery (as a grounds keeper). I like to cuddle because it allows for the closeness and intimacy I crave with a minimal risk of being emotionally gutted if things go south. (Trust issues, me? Nahh lol)
Ok actual things about me here goes.
I LOVE anime particularly anything by Ghibli. Big into isekai, anything with cars and racing, love martial arts/sports animes. MECHA!!! Doesn't really apply to platonic cuddles but romance animes get to me in a way live action just doesn't.
Love Pixar and the house of mouse animations (no I CAN'T watch the movie with out signing along badly sorry)
I'm into cars, motorcycles and to a somewhat lesser degree trucks (preferably diesel)
I like to read mostly fiction running high to sci fi and high fantasy.
Don't get me wrong im "well read" I've read the "Classics" mostly for school I just don't enjoy them as much as your apparently supposed to *shrugs*
Though Gunther Grass I thoroughly enjoy.
The Rat spoke to me.
I've played and or ran most of the main stream table top RPGs at some point.
D&D Shadowrun Cyber Punk, Earth Dawn, pretty much everything by Gurps, VtM, WtA, Cult, Call of Cthulu it just goes on and on... I've done my share of Larps as well.
Video games? Are we really even going to ask? Just yes ok I game lol
I'm a total techie I've built my own rc well name it really cars trucks planes hovercrafts drones boats tanks robots
Not all nerdy though before THE car wreck, when I had all my own parts I was into rock climbing, went bungie jumping, sky diving, cliff dove twice jumped off a few bridges, did junior rodeo back in the day, bronco busting mostly, I've ridden two bulls only went all 8 on one. Love to hike (I've done the A.T.) camp, anything with water boating, fishing, swimming (though not as avid as I once was)
How I like to cuddle? Huh now that one made me think. I guess it all starts with holding hands while talking or taking a walk. A one armed hug while a head rests on my shoulder is fine as well, if we feel comfortable with each other then eventually we can move on to curling up and watching something or better yet listening to music while reading. Ideally if we really feel a connection I'd love to find some one to take cuddle naps with (this has to be the biggest thing I miss since the divorce) but that's a ways down the road.
Probable first meeting goes like this, we meet early morning at IHOP. (Its public, comfortable, has COFFEE, and let's face it there are only so many places where I can have my dinner while you have whats most likely your breakfast). We'll have a meal, get a feel as to wether we mesh well enough in person to continue the interaction we've started, MAYBE hold hands while we have coffee or what ever your preferred after meal beverage is, Go over the boundries and expectations we've discussed to make sure we're very much on the same page and decide if/how the next meeting goes. Does it seem like I've thought this out too heavily? Well yeah I probably have but this isn't carved in stone or anything it's just an out line for meeting people that's served me well in the admittedly distant past lol. Beyond this I'm an open book if you want to know anything feel free to ask I'm near impossible to offend and clear, open communication is paramount to building the required closeness for this to work out.
Horror, bad B, animated.
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None currently, but love animals!
Night shift Machine maintenance
Doesn't want children
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